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uhh problem..
well me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and well it took 4 months for me to kiss him and well thats all ive ever done with anyone...well now hes kinda wanting more and is testing his limits and well i know its normal for guys to try that but i dont know...im only 14 is it normal for 14 year olds to do stuff like that? see my boyfriend has always gottin some from everyone hes been with accept me, but i kinda know that he cares for me b/c he waited so long and well if i do get up the nerve to do it once, will i have to do it alot? is he going to expect that more? should i do it? any advise?
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just because u do it once doesnt mean u half to do it all the time
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Guys love a little anticipation, it makes the act that much better. But on the other hand, if you don't want to do anything, don't let him force you just because of his reputation. It is perfectly normal for 14 year olds to do more than that. Not a whole lot more, but more than kiss, maybe move to a french kiss next and then a little touch and feel. It's probably not a good idea to take it much further than that. And yes, guys will always expect more. It can't be helped. Just make it clear to him what you are willing to do.
Hope I helped, Redlion.
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You did not say what your boyfriend wants you to do. You should not do anything that you do not want. If he really cared for you he would respect that. He is not being good.
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you are only 14. if he loves you enough to wait, he'll keep waiting. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. all that matters is that you are secure with yourself. if you aren't ready, don't feel pressured to just because he has gotten stuff from his exes. you do whatever makes you feel comfortable. that's all i have to say, i hope i helped. any future questions, feel free to ask. later,
Kat
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IF your 14 its perfectly normal to do more then just a kiss. If it's just like a peck kiss then makeout with him. Let him feel you up a little if thats what you want. Also if your ready give him a hj? Hope i helped!!
x3 spiCy xo hoTt
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if all you've ever done is kissed, there's plenty more for you to do besides sex, and no it doesn't mean that you have to do it a lot. but don't do it if you don't feel comfortable. i know he's probably getting antsy, but that's completly normal. if he's waited for you this long, i'm sure that he'll wait until you feel ready to experiment more. if you do it, he will expect that you guys do it more often. only you can decide if you should do it or not, but really think things through, and make sure that you are completly comfortable with him and trust him and that you are positive that you are ready. the worst thing would be for you to do it and then regret it. take your time, think things through, and be safe. hope this helped, and good luck.
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no...becasue its your choice to do stuff with him now not his...dont do anything until your ready and if this is effecting your realtionship with him dump him if not doing stuff is effecting your realtionship with him at 14 dump him he isnt a very good boy friend
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If you do "it" once, then he will expect you to do it alot. It's honestly up to you, Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you want to do & if your nervous about it, then I wouldn't do it. You're just not ready, you're not too blame. Allot of girls are like that, and guys are too. I'm 14, and I've yet to makeout with a guy because I'm too afraid I'm going to suck at it, and I'll feel stupid. Of course I've had my chances of guys wanting sex from me, and I just never gave it to them, because I know how some guys are, they start rumors after you do it with them and then you break up, and your life is ruined. That's usually how it goes, but if this boy is for sure the best guy in the world, and you trust him with everything you have, then go for it! Good luck, and make the right choices.
xO __ amygwendoline
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I think that you should just go for it! but also tell him it won't happen often...if he really really cares about u then he will understand but tell him in a calm nice way! GOOD LUCK! let me know how it goes! Know*It*All
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i would think 14 is too young and if you did start then he would expect to do it whenever he wants since eh's done it with you already. buti would wait becuase i mean i don't want a little surprise 9 months later.
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well first of all... teens like to brag & make it seem like its normal for them to be sexually active... but the truth is... majority of teenagers haven't done half as much as they claim... usually after people start having sex... they'll do it on a daily basis... you both are going to want it more once u do it... i think it's best that you dont start doing stuff... because it sounds like you dont have enough knowledge to deal with this... dont take that offensively... it takes a lot of time and experience... and by experience i mean lots of reading... & listening to other people's stories... wait a while... you'll feel much better about doing stuff once you know more... :)
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now and we just started doing more than making out like a month and a hlf ago maybe 2 months ago.. and im comfortable with that.. well my point is dont do anything you dont want to do because later in life you'll regret it... only do what u want to do, and nothing more.
hope ive helped... *Cortney*
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He'll expect it more. He'll think if you did it once you'll do it some more..its your choice but dont you wanna wait till later. if your not ready tell him that. When/if your ready you can tell him later on but if he doesnt respect what you want then hes not worth it.
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