Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 2:16 pm
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*
MrCoolGuy answered Thursday December 30 2004, 9:08 pm: well if your 17 or older you could but if you really want to have an intimate relationship with him than go for it...the choice is yours not mine... [ MrCoolGuy's advice column | Ask MrCoolGuy A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:17 pm: Well if you love him and care for him and don't think it will be a mistake to have sex wit him.. but if you dont wanna have sex wit him and you feel its not right then dont do it..*~Dez~* [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:09 pm: I dont think any of us can tell you what to do except to make sure he respects your boundaries. If you feel comfortable with it and you trust him enough and you are all for it thats your decision. Make sure to use birth control and condom... the works to make sure you dont get pregnet. If you have a singel doubt about it... i wouldnt go for it. The best of luck [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:09 pm: If you guys are having sex everytime you fuys are together then thats bad, you should have days to just be together and stuff to and it shouldnt be ran on like sex all the time, if your asking yourself if you should have sex with him any more then its telling you that you shouldnt and maybe you should wait alittle bit, becuase it is a big risk and it sucks having to like wait for the next period and worry but it, so maybe like try and have fun but stay away from having sex for awhile [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:58 pm: Well, I personally think that anytime you have to ask the question~should i have sex with him? that you are probably not ready. Don't let him pressure you, do it when you're ready!
*hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~ [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:19 pm: well i think you should do it when your ready, theres no question about that. when your ready (and he obviously is) then go ahead, you've been in this relationship for alomost 9 months now. so its up to you.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
Know*It*All answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:42 pm: I think you should go ahead and do it! Show him that you really like him and that you are very commited! Even go to a hotel if you have to! haha GOOD LUCK! let me know how it goes! Know*It*All [ Know*It*All's advice column | Ask Know*It*All A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:42 pm: If your asking people "should I do it" maybe you arent ready just yet. Whenever you feel that the time is right..and your so sure that you dont have to or want to ask anyone elses opinion, then your ready. Do it when your comfortable and not uptight..and if your not ready dont let your bf keep trying to have sex with you until your ready
-melissa [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
CoKeIzZle answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:37 pm: hey sweetie,That's a question you have to ask yourself,are you ready?and if oyu are remember WEAR PROTECTION!hope i helped xoxo Nicole [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
Toxicxoxo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:29 pm: well if your already not a virgin and you truely love this guy maybe you should... make sure you truely know this guy well enough and trust him though... and dont have sex when his little sister is home lol... good luck ♥ Lexi [ Toxicxoxo's advice column | Ask Toxicxoxo A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:28 pm: You just answered your own question. You are confused about whether you should do it or not, so you obviously shouldn't go through with it just yet. If you really did want to then you would know for sure and you wouldn't need to post a question on it. Wait for a while until you feel completely ready and you don't have any doubts at all. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
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