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me and my boyfriend... me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*
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If you feel totally comfortable wit him and you love him and you picture being with him for a long time. Its up to you..dont let that nigga pressure you into it. Good luck xOx0 *Everybodiiez_Fool* <3 ]
well if your 17 or older you could but if you really want to have an intimate relationship with him than go for it...the choice is yours not mine... ]
If you really love him.. do it! Just make sure the time is right. ]
Well if you love him and care for him and don't think it will be a mistake to have sex wit him.. but if you dont wanna have sex wit him and you feel its not right then dont do it..*~Dez~* ]
I dont think any of us can tell you what to do except to make sure he respects your boundaries. If you feel comfortable with it and you trust him enough and you are all for it thats your decision. Make sure to use birth control and condom... the works to make sure you dont get pregnet. If you have a singel doubt about it... i wouldnt go for it. The best of luck ]
If you guys are having sex everytime you fuys are together then thats bad, you should have days to just be together and stuff to and it shouldnt be ran on like sex all the time, if your asking yourself if you should have sex with him any more then its telling you that you shouldnt and maybe you should wait alittle bit, becuase it is a big risk and it sucks having to like wait for the next period and worry but it, so maybe like try and have fun but stay away from having sex for awhile ]
Well, I personally think that anytime you have to ask the question~should i have sex with him? that you are probably not ready. Don't let him pressure you, do it when you're ready!
*hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~ ]
well i think you should do it when your ready, theres no question about that. when your ready (and he obviously is) then go ahead, you've been in this relationship for alomost 9 months now. so its up to you.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~ ]
if you want to and he wants to then just do it ]
I think you should go ahead and do it! Show him that you really like him and that you are very commited! Even go to a hotel if you have to! haha GOOD LUCK! let me know how it goes! Know*It*All ]
If your asking people "should I do it" maybe you arent ready just yet. Whenever you feel that the time is right..and your so sure that you dont have to or want to ask anyone elses opinion, then your ready. Do it when your comfortable and not uptight..and if your not ready dont let your bf keep trying to have sex with you until your ready
-melissa ]
hey sweetie,That's a question you have to ask yourself,are you ready?and if oyu are remember WEAR PROTECTION!hope i helped xoxo Nicole ]
well if your already not a virgin and you truely love this guy maybe you should... make sure you truely know this guy well enough and trust him though... and dont have sex when his little sister is home lol... good luck ♥ Lexi ]
You just answered your own question. You are confused about whether you should do it or not, so you obviously shouldn't go through with it just yet. If you really did want to then you would know for sure and you wouldn't need to post a question on it. Wait for a while until you feel completely ready and you don't have any doubts at all. ]
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