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In Love & Death
ok, i'm 19/female. my best friend(steve) died in march. the night before he did we admitted to each other that we were in love with each other and had been for years. it was the happiest day of my life. all i had to do was break up with my man. the next morning, steve was found dead at a nearby park. the police still dont know if it was suicide or if he was killed, but anyways. that death destoryed my whole life, took my heart right down in the grave with him. then i met neil, and i still love steve, i always will... but i connect with neil, and i see things in neil that i saw with steve. i think that steve sent neil to me to make sure im ok. well.. neil was on probation, and broke it by leaving the county, and now is facing a 1-3 yr sentence. i dont know what to do. i cant lose both of them. please help.
desperate
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well first of all id like to say your still young,you will meet many steves and neals along your journey.as for steve you will never know what could have been.as for neal first id like to know why was he on probation?and how long have you known him?if you believe this is the man for you then time will tell.he will be there for about three years waiting on you.so you have the ball in your hands.and i would suggest taking it day by day.having a man in prison is no easy task,you suffer also.you will be alone,until hes out.trust me on this its hard not being able to cuddle or go out with your man.if nothing else you could always be friends,he will need one.well i hope i could help .
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wow, two guys that have come for you. interesting. stick with neil and see what happens, keep in touch with him.
hope i gave good enuff information to a 19 yr old.
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what kind of guys are u into? but anyways that is very hard!!! I would have been a tottal wreck too if that happened to me! Just be there for neil and keep in touch with him and stuff.. hopefully everything works out if not just try and stay away from the guy for alitle bit and hang out with your girls more, im sure u you will find aother guy along the way that is good and will be a good boyfriend for you!
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Don't listen to that CarltheCatguy. He's an asshole.
Well..why was neil I'm probation.
I'm so sorry about steve and maybe you are right (about steve sending you neil)...
There's nothing you can do. But hope it all works out.
I'm sorry...don't worry it will be okay. =/ *hugs*
-Gessyka
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Well if Steve sent neil to you then neil wouldent be facing jail. Hopefully his lawyer or whoever can try to get Neil a less harsher sentence. If neil does go to jail, you'll just have to find someone else..I dont know if I helped much but yeah sorry
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