I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back?
I say, you choose you favorite blunt force weapon of choice and beat him until he swears to stay away for your ex.
Or, you could try trusting this woman that you apparently love when she says she loves you as well. And, if, by some chance she does end up with feelings for the other man, then at least the woman you love will be happy. Right?
worshipthelizardking answered Monday January 17 2005, 10:42 am: If you really love her, you'll let her be for a little while. And if she really cares about you still, she'll come back new guy or not. Maybe it's best she experiences something else to remind her of how much she misses you- works every time. good luck man
Peace
Here-To-Help answered Monday January 17 2005, 10:06 am: Just wait...for a little. It'll be difficult, but if you feel you've REALLY waited long enough, than move on...because she wouldn't be worth it if she made you wait that long anyway.
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