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I need my ex back
I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back? We went to the pictures lastight and it was goin brilliant then her phone went off and it was a text msg off this lad and her attitude towards me totally changed!
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SRY this took so long! Ok well from wut your tellin me i totally think that she is leading you on!! I know how u feel aboout wanting your ex back 'cuz rite now i am tryin to do the same thing. Guess what i am not getting any further then you! I am not sure if she is feelin' you or not. But like the advice i give myself sometimes you just have to let go no matter how hard it would be!
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sorry to hear that baby.
well, me and my boyfriend recently broke around christmas too, and ever since i've been single because i don't feel ready to be in another relationship right now, not even with him. I feel very strongly about this, too.
The most you could do is keep letting her know you care, but you can't control her emotions and who she sees. She may just be leaning on the new lad for support, as I am currently doing now. I found a friend who can make me happy and I can talk to about anything until I am ready for a new relationship.
I can't tell you how long she'll be like this, but if she still cares, she definitely come back to you.
The text msg was probably just him checking on her if she's told him her situation.
But you did do right by putting your cards on the table and letting her know you still care.
Well, since I am going through this right now, I hope this advice really helped you! Good luck! I hope you get back together.
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Aww wow 2 years! That's good! There's no way her feelings can just go away after that long! That's 2 years! But, that's good that you are comfortable around each other to tell each other how you feel and you might have to do that again to tell her how you feel about this girl who is telling you things. But, what I think is that this girl like you and is trying to get you away from her and by telling your ex g/f bad things about you, it will change her feelings toward you. But, that's just what I think! But, I'll help you out on what to say to your ex g/f (soon to be girlfriend!!! =D) Okay, just be like "We were together for 2 years and that's a lot to share with someone. You know I still care about you and I'm still in love with you! But, you say you are too, which is GREAT!, but you say you don't want a relationship right now.. When will you be ready to have one with me..? And the reason I sat you down is because I got told that you are talking to someone else, but is only "just friends" I need to know if you guys are or if I'm just wasting my time..." Just say something like that and how you feel and ask her what you want to know. I hope this helps and good luck hun! Tell me how it goes! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well, You just have to trust her, but ask her how she feels about him, although it may not be a true answer, you may be able to find out by her reactions. Just the best thing to do is tell her that you're scared you might lose her. I also thought, that maybe she just wants some time along to meet new people, not like find another boyfriend, but just go out and have some fun with people. I'm sorry if it's not the best advice, I tried. If you need anymore though, feel free to leave one in my inbox.
- CaitLynn
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