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stalker! (sorta..)


Question Posted Monday January 17 2005, 8:16 am

There is this kid at my school who has been following me around eveywhere since 4th grade, hes really sweet and all... but he thinks i love him. What is up with him, should i tell an adult or just let him go do his thing and yell at him if he gets out of hand? *im in 8th grade by the way*

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helpme_imhungry answered Monday January 17 2005, 9:17 pm:
You should ignore him completely. If this guy is a stalker, like you said, than he will take any opportunity to be with you- he will never leave you alone. If he asks you to do somthing, like go to the movies, than don't say- you have a boyfriend, or your busy that night; that leaves the possibility that he will still have a chance. Just be blunt, if you mean no, than just say no, don't be polite. If you have told him how you feel completely, and he still doesn't get it, than tell an adult, but don't just put up with it.

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horseygurl answered Monday January 17 2005, 8:52 pm:
You don't need to tell an adult. And please don't yell at him! I have the same problem. Just sit down with him and tell him how you fell. If he continuse to bother you, then you could tell an adult. But see if you can take care of the problem by yourself first.

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laogurl2004 answered Monday January 17 2005, 6:41 pm:
*WHAT THE HELL!*..if i was you..i'd either..kick his ass..or talk to him..
*-*laogurl2004*

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qotsa369 answered Monday January 17 2005, 2:27 pm:
Get someone older to beat him up, I think that should get the message across. Or just tell him to leave you alone.

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Karen answered Monday January 17 2005, 12:59 pm:
You need to tell an adult because if he's been "stalking" you for a long time, it can lead to something dangerous because he may be obsessed with you. I once saw a movie on Lifetime about this. You need to tell him straight up that you don't want him "stalking" you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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LoStxxxSoUl123 answered Monday January 17 2005, 11:22 am:
Tell him that you like him...AS A FRIEND...and tell an adult i guess that would help!

Much Love,

SiRiSHA

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c_assi_e_x_12 answered Monday January 17 2005, 10:08 am:
Well things could get out of hand. If it gets to a certain point where you feel uncomfortable and you literally can't take it anymore, then tell an adult. He kinda sounds like a stalker. Be careful and good luck!!




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x0advice4y3w answered Monday January 17 2005, 9:48 am:
yeah. i've been through that. it's not exactly like a sicko stalker, yet it's pretty weird. im guessing if he's like seriously obsessed like follows you absoultly everywhere deffinitly tell an adult,but like if it's just too class or something just tell him uhm can you please leave me alone or something pretty polite? and uhm maybe he just likes you a lot? haha i dont know .. but i hope i helped?

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