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Ok. Well I met this guy online about 7 months ago-We've been talking ever since the night we met. The thing is he lives in Tennesee and I live in Alabama. We met in a chatroom. I kinda like him and vice versa with him. I would go out with him but I would feel very stupid becuase I don't need an internet relationship. We could see eachother sometime because he travels with his family to auburn to watch their football games and I go with my father. I'm so confused and I have no earthly idea what to do.
Signed,
Internet Lover
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DON'T GO OUT WITH HIM! I had an internet boyfriend of 6 months, which was online/phone. He broke up with me last night. And it wasn't worth going out with someoen I never saw. Later!
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Well first off, do you trust him. because trust plays an important role in this. So if you trust him, maybe try talking to him on the phone and get to know him, and once you feel like you trust him then maybe tell your parents and meet up at the football game, because it would defintly be safe. Good luck with it and no need 2 feel stupid!
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If you really know this guy, give it a shot! But for all you know, this guy could easily be an 80-year-old woman that spends her days in a wheelchair!
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for all you know that guy you met in the chatroom that lives in tennessee could be me ;)
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If you want to try to have a relationship with this guy, then go ahead and try it, but meet him first. Definately don't meet him alone though. That's never smart no matter how much you trust him. You might end up regretting the relationship but you'll probably regret never giving it a chance so much more. I know lots of people who have had long distance relationships that have worked out and the same goes with people who have met online. Some are even married now.
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I think it would be okay to be friends. Meet with dads present, never alone. You can't realistically have a relationship with someone so far away. Not a serious one anyway. Friendship is good, and you can always get together in the future if it is meant to be something more. For now though just remain friends. :)
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i would meet up wih him first before doing naything get to know him and see what he really like people r so different go witha friend though or make sure ya dad stay with u, i remeber meeting my guy couldnt get any friend to come with me so i took my mummy she was there for like a second but it made me feel all that much safer good luck chick!
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Hello there,
I like this:
"I would feel very stupid because I don't need an internet relationship."
... Well count me as a stupid person then. My wife and I just celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary in March. We met on-line in 1996, and were married about 3 months later.
You know right this very minute if this guy is for you. You can feel it in your heart, I am sure.
If the guy is just a fling, cut it off.
If the guy is right, then go for it. You only get one happily ever after.
I got mine,
DangerNerd.
P.S. She is on here as DangerWench
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don't go out with him. long distance relationships don't work. trust me. do you ever go places and see people holding hands and cuddling? you couldn't do that, because he lives in tennessee. keep talking to him. and maybe hang out with him at a football game. don't take it farther than friendship. for now at least.
-oh i'm so from alabama too. hit me up on AIM.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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If you do like him then go out with him! its better than loosing him if what ever happends. Dont fill stupid because at least he likes you and you guys will be able to c each other once in a while
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