I went out with this guy named Chris.We were talking and relized that we were not going to see each other this summer. Since i was going to be gone for most of the summer. So i said to him that we could be friends. But i also think about him all the time. Waiting for him to get online. I think i still like him and i think that he still likes me. But i don't know if i should give it another try or let it go. And just be friends with him? Please help me. My e-mail is mandabear1321@aol.com or mandabear1321@ yahoo.com.
mauigirl answered Saturday May 28 2005, 8:52 pm: stay friends while your gone... sorry.. but 3 months is too long to wait around. but when you're talking to him on the phone or wahtever, flirt a lot. then when you get back ask him if he wants to try being more than friends. [ mauigirl's advice column | Ask mauigirl A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday May 28 2005, 8:27 pm: I think you should leave it open for the summer. Talk and stay in touch then resume your relationship when you get back. It takes lots of attention to have a successful relationship and I don't think that will be possible with you being away. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Vassalisa answered Saturday May 28 2005, 8:08 pm: If you really feel you want to be romantically involved with Chris, you should go for it! However, if you are unsure then staying friends will keep the door open for the future. Have you asked him how he feels about your 'just friends' arrangement? Maybe his answer would give you a clue as to what you should do.
VanityScore answered Saturday May 28 2005, 7:46 pm: Well, you really have to think about this. I've had break ups that happened because of summer too (one of them I actually really regret)... and the only way you can decide this is to think of how much the relationship meant to both of you. And if it can last through the summer.
There are ways to keep in contact with him. You can write letters (possibly call? or IM?.. that is if you're not going to camp)... keep in mind, that this means the both of you will have to put extra effort in to make this work, but it could be worth it... [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
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