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dunno what to do
ok heres the story: my friend, lets call her becky, well she has had a boyfriend for about 2 months now, lets call him bob. becky really likes bob but then again she can't make up her mind who she likes. she flirts with other guys and like me and her sister and her ex-bf think that bob is using her. bob is younger than her by a couple of months. every time i am with becky and bob they hold each other and crap and i am tired of it.(i'm not jealous b/c i have a bf.) bob makes faces behind beckys back and talks about her and shit and it makes me laugh so when becks asks what is so funny i say bob and then like he totally denies it. something is fishy about him b/c he wouldn't let becky see his yearbook. (btw becky is homeschooled and bob goes to public school. i don't know how to confront becky about this. i tried asking her before but she doesn't listen. i don't know what to do! HELP!
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Only way is to just tell. her. Bob is being a jerk and if she's truly your friend you'll tell her.
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tel her hes is useing her and she needs to leave him! b/c there is a possible chance of him cheating if he goes to a pub. school. if she doesnt listen there nutin you can do b/c you tryed and she wont listen
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becky probably doesn't realize that she's flirting with other guys..if you really have strong feelings about it then let her know that you think she is being a little too flirty. them holding each other is also fine..thats what people do when they really like each other. bob making faces behind her back could just be him making fun of her jokingly. i know my friend's boyfriend does that sometimes but just in a cute funny way. as for the yearbook, he probably doesn't want her to see his picture or something. they seem happy..so you don't have to worry.
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If shes questioning who she likes, then she doesn't really like this bob person. Questioning is the first step to the end of a relationship.
Being younger by a couple of months shouldn't be that big of an impact. Years would be a big impact, but months shouldn't be that big of a deal.
Making face: also not that big of a deal.
Talking shit: a bit of a big deal; talking shit is never nice
As for not showing her his yearbook, that shouldn't matter either. I don't show my parents my yearbook (even though they paid for it) and I don't love them any less or anything. There is nothing fishy about not showing a yearbook.
I think that this situation is mostly being blown out of proportion.
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you should tell becky what you think is up, when bob isn't around. if you're really her friend, then you should tell her, because friends aren't supposed to keep secrets from one another.
hope i helped =)
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