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Love question
I am currently 16, male, and have been told I don't understand love. Even if that is true, I KNOW I love this one girl. See, we know each other very well, but we dont live close together. She moved away last year. We know there is something there, but we are both scared. What should I do? Ask her out, or wait till I can get back to her?
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you're 16 and scared that there is something between you and a person of the opposite gender.
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I'm really big on the whole "Carpe Diem" thing. Seize the moment! Nothing is stopping you. If you are sure she loves you, and you know you love her then go for it! Ask her out and see what she thinks. Of course there are complications... the whole long distance thing, but you never know what the future holds and if you wait too long she might move on and you'll be left always wondering what would have happened if you had went for it. So ASK HER OUT! lol ~Sherah
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If she lives close enough for you to be able to see her once a week or so then ask her out.
If she lives far enough away that seeing her is going to be a problem then you may have to wait.
You both will want to go to school dances and that sort of thing with dates. If it isn't possible for you to do that together then I don't think a long distance relationship is going to last. You can remain friends for the time being and pursue a more serious relationship when the situation gets easier. If its true love you will eventually get together. :)
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ASK HER OUT!!! or wait for her. you should definatly ask her out though because you never know she might get another boy friend and might not wana wait for you
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I think you should choose aking her out. I don't think you can right away say that you need to move on without even trying to show your feelings to her. Most girls who like a particular guy waits for the guy to ask them out. So I really think you need to do the first move. You know each other well so that'll be easy to ask her out. Good luck!
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