well i have a few questions.
1. whats the "easiest" way to break up with someone? (i know its not "easy" but i barely talk to the guy anyway and thats why im breaking it off)
2. how long should i wait before going out with one of his friends? (we were together for 2 months...theyre not close and his friends last relationship ended a week into mine.)
thanks & let me know if u need more info.
FunnyBunny112495 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 6:58 pm: 1.Maybe you should tell him somewhere nice & sweet but then also tell him with a kind and gentle voice.
BaMzmAmAn19 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 3:49 pm: 1) The easieast * way is to tell him that things arent working out and you think you guys should see other people.....
2) you shouldnt have to wait for him or w/e.... if hes your ex-bf's friend then thats not all that great. But at the most time you should wait at least 1 ta 2 weeks.
aeromonkey answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 2:11 pm: you're right.. it's not hard to break it off. 1) let him down easy by telling him that there's just nothing there anymore. You really appreciate him as a friend, andyou only want to be a friend. You wish him the best, but you've fallen out of love. (it happens to tons of people) maybe God has brought his friend into your life for a purpose... I would wait a good time to avoid acusations of various sorts
karenR answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 11:59 am: As you said there is no "easy" way. If you aren't even talking I doubt it will break him up to badly. He isn't trying very hard to keep you.
Just tell him. Make sure he knows why...no communication is a good reason to break up.
I don't think you need to wait very long at all before going out with anyone else, regardless of who they are. If the break up came out of nowhere for you the answer may have been different. I think your current relationship has been over...just needs the proper burial!
If you want the next relationship to last...remember to communicate. It is very important in any relationship you have be it a friend OR boyfriend. Good luck :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Mutlow1 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 9:30 am: I think you should just tell him to his face. Just say that you dont think you can be any more than just friends, just be honest!
I would not go out with his mate straight after unless you want to hurt his feelings, i would let the dust settle for a few weeks and then assess your feelings again- if you still like him at least things would have calmed down so your free to go for it!
angel_sarah23 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 8:09 am: i would say i think it was better when we were friends and as we dont talk whats the point,
and i wouldnt go out with his mate!
if it was ok with the ex i would leave it about 3/4 months maybe! [ angel_sarah23's advice column | Ask angel_sarah23 A Question ]
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