Ok, so there is this girl named christina and she used to be my friend, but the reason I quit bein her friend was because she couldn't shut the hell up about two of my other friends, I mean she would just blow up on them for no reason when I was around but when I was gone and she was the only one there, she would be all nice and stuff because there was no one els there but anytime I was there they could jus sit by her and she would scream at them.So could you help me on what to say to her to tell her off and make her get off my friends!!!
TimeOfYourLife answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 11:02 pm: Okay, so, maybe you should, like, stop hanging around her, because, like, shes TOTALLY just giving you a, like, hardtime, ya know?
Actually- I DON'T GET YOUR GOSSIP LINGO. It's all she does, my friends, other friends, two friends, my friends, etc. etc. My advice? Take WEIGHTED ENGLISH in Highschool. [ TimeOfYourLife's advice column | Ask TimeOfYourLife A Question ]
2cute4words answered Monday May 30 2005, 6:08 pm: Tell her to shutup! Who friggin cares about wut you say leave us alone!!! All you do is scream and yell and complain all day i mean would you just get a life!!?!? O wait i forgot you dont have one! (ha ha ha) Say something like that to her. Or just totally ignore her (its hard but it works). She wants to get you angry so just ignore her and she'll realize shes not getting wut she wants from you and she'll go away. Hope i helped rate me! [ 2cute4words's advice column | Ask 2cute4words A Question ]
LilBSUBabe08 answered Monday May 30 2005, 4:00 pm: Ok, first off, why do you want to tell her off? It would be a better person of you to be nice to her and try to just talk to her. Let her know how you feel and that she needs to respect your friends. Tell her that she dont have to like them but since they are your friends, she needs to be respectful and not say bad things about them. Especially in front of you! If she isnt going ot be respectful then she isnt worth keeping. Just let her know how you feel! You also might want to tell your friends that she is talking about them bad to you. Maybe they will be of some help. Hope I helped! [ LilBSUBabe08's advice column | Ask LilBSUBabe08 A Question ]
GeezLouise answered Monday May 30 2005, 3:22 pm: your right to be mad about her talking sh*t about your friends. Gossip is a big no-no where friends are concerned.
If she looks like shes even going to open her mouth and start her crap....cut her off and tell her that you are not interested in hearing her if she is about to say anything bad about your friends. Tell her, I don't know what your deal is, but I don't like hearing you tear my friends apart, and if you have a problem with that, maybe we shouldnt hang out anymore.
Chances are, she probably will not stop. Shes got in it for your friends...who knows why...jeaslousy maybe? Life is hard enough without having to deal with petty ass people who drain all your energy away.
good luck
Louise [ GeezLouise's advice column | Ask GeezLouise A Question ]
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