I`m a 12 year old girl and I`m obessed with what I look like. I mean it`s not high matencine (i can spell lol) or anything like that. It`s just I can`t friggin stand myself!!! I always compare myself to others, I exercise constantly, and I feel like I`m always saying "Ohh you`re too effin` fat" or "God why the heck can`t you be skinny??!" I`m a size 0 but it`s like I cant accecpt that... I use to be anorexic (once again i can*t spell) and I use to cut myself. I don`t know what to do...is there something wrong with me? Please help me!!! <33 much love
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? pinkxice143 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 9:55 pm: no not at all !! girl this age tend be like you .. we all care about what we look like ! if you are a size 0 your not fat at all !! stop worrying about your self so much ! if you can look at yourself in the mirror thats all that counts .. dont ever thik about what other people say they are all gonna be jelous of you !!
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twistedteen25 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:46 pm: No there isn't anything wrong with you, a lot of people are obsessed with how they look, they excersise, wear makeup where ever they go to hide their zits and pimples and they also wear clothes from expensive stores so they can look good. you said you were anorexic and a cutter, well you said you were, so that should definetely be left in the past and it's not something to show off either. Main point is there's nothing wrong with being obsessed if your saying your 2 obsessed than cut down, try to work on one thing at a time, exercise first and then worry about the what your gonna wear etc. I compare myself to others 2, it's not a bad thing or a good thing. If you compare that means that you think she's perfect but in some ways, actually most ways, she's not. That's the same way with me. I'm skinny as well and I'm 13.I told me best frend that she has the most perfect body image she told me though it's not the outside that counts it's the inside and inside i have a lot of problems. Another thing, everyone has to stand themselves, the problem is that your telling yourself not to stand yourself. I hope i helped and good luck!
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