well theres this guy & he tells me he loves me & flirts all tha time but i think he's caught up on my friend & my friends say he likes me but is scared 2 "settle" with me should i wait on him or just forget about it? plz help if u can.
karenR answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 7:27 am: Next time he tells you he loves you, ask what he means by that. Ask him if he loves you as just a good friend or do you want to date me. Should be pretty easy to get your answer :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
BurnieMac answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:22 am: Ok, if it's true this dude is scared to "settle" with you, then forget him. Do you want someone to be with and think of it as settling. I'm pretty sure when you say settle that you mean he's saying that you're not his top choice. If this is true, then you don't need to waste your time with someone who sees being with you as settling for second best. I hope that I understood your mentioning of the word "settle". I hope I helped. Friendly advice from Caleb.
icey0990 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:54 am: well do you really want someone to settle with? because if so move on and forget him..but if your ok with not settling and being friends with benefits then make moves on him and im sure he will respond...it really all depends on what you want and what your willing to sacrifice..like if you want to settle..are you willing to not settle just to be with him ? ask yourself that and whatever you decide on go with it..no regrets [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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