I love this guys and he loves me too. Hes so incredibly perfect for me and i want to be with him so bad. The only problem is he lives 2000 miles away! I dont really want to go out with anyone at home but i also dont want to be single for the rest of highschool..i dont think hed every get into a relationship with me because of the distance either. i dunno what i should do..and if i decide to have a bf how do i tell him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BurnieMac answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:55 pm: Well, first of all, remember, you're in high school. You don't need to be so tied down to someone, especially someone 2,000 miles away. You should probably just date people that are closer to where you are, it's much more fun I'm sure. If you do decide to do that, then just tell him. Don't beat around the bush; tell him that you're gonna date other people that are closer to you. He'll understand I'm sure. He'd probably agree with you too. Anyways, it's up to you; I hope I helped. Friendly advice from Caleb.
heya answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:33 am: 2000 miles is very far away. Have u ever seen the Real World? Well if you havent..these 7 roommates get picked to live in a house..work together..and have there lives taped. Some of them are leaving their bfs/gfs behind. And has time goes on..theyre relationship starts to fall because they havent seen eachother in awhile..and theyre around other ppl.Its even hard for these 23 or 24 yr olds to keep up this relationship that theyve had. And when i watched that i realized..the percent of still going out when youre far away from eachother is slim. Now if you get a bf..yes you should tell him if you still keep in contact with him frequently. And he could have a gf..you know never kno how youll meet in a new place. My opinion..dont dwell on this guy. And when he comes back to see you and you guys still have that love..then its gonna be surprising and special at the same time. But for right now..if you wanna date someone..then go for it. [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
Anthony_d answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:04 am: Thats always a problem... When you find someone amazing and can't be with them for love nor money!
I myself am in a long distance relationship so i know how it feels. You say you love this guy.... but you say on the same breath you dont want to be single for the rest of high-school. Why? I mean you dont know if you're ever going to actually meet someone as good as this guy; or if you can feel for them the same way. I mean so what if you're single at school? It doesnt make you any less of a person believe me. And you dont know if he would have a relationship but have you asked? I mean the only good way in life is to ask then find out. Then take it from there. You never know; he may feel the same! Dont succum to peer pressure. Be your own. It isnt cool to have sum bf who'll treat you like crap! Follow your heart!
Hope i helped, anthony [ Anthony_d's advice column | Ask Anthony_d A Question ]
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