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bf is a jerk


Question Posted Friday December 3 2004, 4:33 pm

my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot

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questionmark201 answered Saturday December 4 2004, 1:28 pm:
Let me spell this out D-U-M-P H-I-M. you dont need to put up with things like that.
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jamericanmiz answered Saturday December 4 2004, 11:23 am:
NoNoNo!! he could love you in just 2 wks. because theres something i believe in called love a t irst sight. but this guy doesnt mean it. no one in love with you would do that. you didnt start it! you're right he is a jerk leave and dont return. i know its hard becasue oyu really like him. but think about it, is all this worth it? to stay with him means this will happen many times again and it wrong! you can find someone else. open your eyes theres someone out there that most likely likes YOU alot and will treat you a hundred times better plus in due time love oyou and make you happy

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dancinqueen08 answered Friday December 3 2004, 11:52 pm:
Dump him! He is treating you badly and no one deserves that. It is a sign of a bad relationship when he is lying about the what is really going on. You need to break up with him and move on. He doesn't respect you or your feelings and it is obvious. You deserve better than him.

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jamziix16 answered Friday December 3 2004, 8:55 pm:
dump him! he's an *a* hole.. he doesn't really love you! my boyfriend was like that.. actually he still is! he alwayzz tells me he's tired of my shit.. but yeah.. u didn't start him. dump him.. he's a prick! i hope i helped :o)

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jayna33 answered Friday December 3 2004, 7:11 pm:
tell him that if he can't even handle a little confrontation about a couple a words you didn't like that he was saying, tell him that he can't handle a relationship. if he continues to be rude to you don't talk to him, it isn't very hard to say dude calm down we have only been together for 2 weeks. always remember in relationships u are going to go through some times when you are climbing a mountain and you just keep falling on your ass!

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zapreth answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:22 pm:
Dump his ass. This guy is going to go to jail for spousal abuse in the future. No good. Too clingy, too psycho. Get out while you can. Hope I'm wrong, pretty sure I'm not. Good Luck!

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Juliett answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:15 pm:
You should definetly fart in his face

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CaLiEnTeBaYbEe answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:10 pm:
DUMP HIM!! you just said your bf is a jerk then u put " i like him alot" just dump him and if hes worth it then hell come back and be changed and be a respectful guy but any guy who makes you cry infront of everybody doesnt deserve you....you have to show him that you wont put up with him treating you like this....jsut say okay if your tired of my prissy attitude then lets just end it and you wont have to deal with it anymore!

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russianspy1234 answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:45 pm:
well he might really love you (or think he does) and when you told him not to say it it hurt him. guys really go on the spot saying i love you first, its something they usualy wouldnt admit to their friends. but really that isnt an excuse for how hes been treating you. id try to talk it out first, then if that doesnt work break it off (his hand lol)

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Babii_Soccer10 answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:43 pm:
so what if you might be a little prissy im real prissy and everybody whos decent loves me! lol jk
NEWAYS juss dont let him put you down from what you wrote he sounds like a big pain in the a.s.s. so juss dump him thats what i would do then have my friend kick his jerkish a.s.s.
hoped i helped!!
.:Hannah:.

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xShOrTiEx answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:32 pm:
i would dump him

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xOKooLAiDOx answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:04 pm:
just cuz you lyke him dont mean he lykes you
move on... theres gonna be other hotties.. theres gonna be other luvrs.. yer gonna find someone else.. dump the shit bag.. and hes right.. you did start it. you shuda not written him a note.. you shuda asked him bout it to his face.. *((older people.. dont kno NUTIN))*

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wiggylilweirdo answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:01 pm:
Hum...two weeks that kind of quick to drop the L word...(childish I know)...ever heard the saying "No guy is worth your tears and when you finally find one that is...he wont make you cry." It was completly childish of him to tell you that you started it and it was wrong of him to call you out "in fornt of god and everybody." In the title you called him "a jerk" so I think maybe you might have already mad up your own mind what to do. If not...think about it...do you really want to go out with a jerk?

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Miss_Megan answered Friday December 3 2004, 4:38 pm:
Whoa two weeks and he's already saying I love you?? Well if he really cares for you I think you should give him anotehr shot. But is he's going to embarass you infront of everyone then thats just not right. And its immature for him to tell you that "you started it". Maybe you should sit him down tell him how you feel and see if he understands where your coming from. If he just starts a fight with you then kick him to the curb and get your self another boyfriend!

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jbdreamer answered Friday December 3 2004, 4:37 pm:
He obviously does not really love you, nor has very much respect for you if he can yell at you in front of the entire lunch room. You have just gotten a taste of what he is really like, now ask yourself, do you want to be with someone like that?

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