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Question Posted Friday December 3 2004, 4:37 pm

ok, my parents, dont smoke..or say they dont. when theyre in their room, and they leave and let me go in there..it smells horrible..like smoke, but not cigarette smoke. ive been to a concert...and smelled mostly everything there is to be smoked, and one of the smells is what i smell in my parents room. last year i was looking for presents around xmas(hehe) and i had heard of looking in btween the bed and the mattress, so i tried there. i found a couple of baggies with something in them..and no it wasnt a cd or anything.. well everyonce inawhile, i see a pipe stickin out from under the bed.the othr nite it finally hit me what the smell was..pot..so jus a second ago, i went in(theyre not home) and lifted up the matress, what do i find?the pipe i saw, and some baggies with the same stuff. so i went to freevibe.com to see what it could b..and i think it is pot. if they are, i need them to tell me, even though i noe that wont happen. if they are i wanna get out of the house and go stay with my aunt. the thing is, i love my parents, and theyre BOTH sunday school teachers.do u think they are? and if they are..how can i stop it or let them realize i know?

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zapreth answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:19 pm:
Boy, this is role reversal. The only kids I've ever known who's parents smoked also grew and passed it around. They were more worried in school over getting their ciggs taken up. Start by asking what the smell is. Start really complaoning about it. THC builds up, they'll buy it. If they know you notice... Progress from there. I mean you don't want them poking through your stuff, do you? If you can't guilt them into it in a few weeks, just straight out ask. The worst that happens is the worse case you've already got in your head. Good luck, sweetie.

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Juliett answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:18 pm:
Duh ask to take pot wiht them

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hErEtoheLp answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:51 pm:
Yeah so it's probably pot. If you love your parent's then don't leave them over something like that. It's just pot, there are a ton of worse things they could be doing in this world. It's weird that they'd be doing it and they're Sunday School teachers. Well, of course the only way to get them to confess, is by showing them the evidence with you. That way they can't deny it, it's under THEIR bed. Then the only thing that would be left to do is tell them that you want them to quit. That's all you really can do. It can only be their choice, and just let them know how much it'd mean to you if they stopped. But seriously, don't go live with your aunt, that could cause some SERIOUS problems for your parents. Smoking pot doesn't make them bad people. If you go to live with your aunt one, CPS could be called, which is just NO good. You don't want that by any means. Or two, your whole family could trash them and cause hardships on them, they coudl lose their jobs. Just before you do that, think about it. It's a serious matter when you want to leave for something like that. But yes, show them the evidence, tell them you're not stupid, and ask them to stop and be willing to back them up if they want to.

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wiggylilweirdo answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:25 pm:
Just ask them. If you really want them to stop tell them. You could get on the net and get some facts togeather and show them how much this means to you. If that still doesn't work, then tell them its either pot or you. Giving someone an ultimatum like that takes guts and you need to be willing to back it up. I would say jsut talk to them about it.

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xOKooLAiDOx answered Friday December 3 2004, 5:00 pm:
dude... be fuckin honest with them.. be lyke
i know you guys are pot heads.. why dont you share with me?
lmao
thatz what my dad sayd he told me if he ever found out i wasa pot head.. but i'm not
dont worry bout it dude
they cant die from pot... itz just pot

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mysticpixie05 answered Friday December 3 2004, 4:50 pm:
if they are smokin pot then you cant make them tell you and you certainly cant make them stop. yea i think they are but i dont really get what your freaking out about. if you want them to know that you know then just tell them.

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