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i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do??? (link)
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confront her dont ever listen to 'people' because tht doesnt mean it 100% true. if shes your friend she wont get mad about you asking her about all this. maybe its best she know what people say about her. wouldnt you like her to tell you if someone was talking about you good luck
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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
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talk to your doctor or your parents or an adult you really trust good luck
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me and this guy (that i like) always talk online (he goes to my school) but we never talk at school...actually i think he avoids me at school...he doesnt have a girlfriend and we seem to get along...whats up with him? (link)
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hes either playing with you, doesnt know its you hes talking to online, or is shy. what iw oud do is confront him in school. just be like hi how are you doing or say whats up what ever works for you good luck
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
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NoNoNo!! he could love you in just 2 wks. because theres something i believe in called love a t irst sight. but this guy doesnt mean it. no one in love with you would do that. you didnt start it! you're right he is a jerk leave and dont return. i know its hard becasue oyu really like him. but think about it, is all this worth it? to stay with him means this will happen many times again and it wrong! you can find someone else. open your eyes theres someone out there that most likely likes YOU alot and will treat you a hundred times better plus in due time love oyou and make you happy
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ok so my friend alexia has a really popular twin sister who is named ashley. i hang out with alexia but i also sometimes hang out with ashley. and alexia and i decided last year in 7th grade that we wanted to be more social and popular in 8th grade. so far things are going well but she is more popular than i am because of her sister. i guess that is just a natural advantage. and alexia has got such style and lots of clothes (because her and her sister share clothes) and if you meet alexia then she will automattically be the leader of the group just because that is part of herself i guess. so anyways i want to be like her because like guys like her and guys dont really like me. what does she do to make everyone like her? well anyways i want to be like her but dont get me wrong i love me, myself, and i and who i am but still i want to be like her. what should i do. please help!!
-ARIELLE (link)
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its normal and natural to want to be like someone else. but what you have to do is just be yourself but confident. know that you are smart pretty and outgoing. the fact is shy people cant be popular like how u want to be. im not saying go out and really flaunt yourself but just be more out there a bit. but dont try and be Alexia becasue there cna only be one alexia just like theres only one arielle and style and clothes has nothing to do with it. it just helps oyu out a little bit. be yourself always good luck
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Everytime I answer a question on my advice column this thing comes up it says:Chatspeak detected.Please type in English. That is all I speak,type and write...English.PLEASE HELP! i rate REALLY HIGH! (link)
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you have to write out your words dont write them in slang or abbreviations like b/c its becasue you have to write it out
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I have a good friend named Nick. And I've always had some feelings for him but i could never persue anything with him because he always had a gf or if he didnt i had a bf. Well now he has a gf and i am single. But i have been liking him a lot more lately. And i think he likes me too. He has been giving a lot of signs and he pays more attention to me than his gf. He also Grabbed me and wrapped his arms around me and stayed like that for awhile. What should i do? I want to tell him but i dont want to ruin anything between him and his gf.
~Signed, Lost in Luv (link)
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well his relationship with his girlfiriend is already runined because he's feeling you more than her. and im this exact situation at the moment. i think you should tell him how u feel and leave the rest up to him. because its up to him to react to your feelings. dont get discouraged if he doesnt act to them right away. because he could be holding back because of his gf. he probably just doesnt want to hurt her because shes really nice. but the fact is he might want you more instead of her. so tell him how u feel and take it from there good luck
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my relationship of 5 years is going down the drain. we have a one and a half year old. today he got upset because he could not find me. he was at work and i went to school to do some papers. when he got off of work he called me a bitch and a whore and he did not believe me that i was at school. i was about to go back to school for class so he hid my makeup, messed up my hair, and threw laundry around the house. then he followed me to school with his bright head lights on. my son was crying and i told my boyfriend to change his diaper and put him to sleep while i go to school cuz he was fussy. his reply was he was not going to do shit. i am stuck as what to do. i do not work much cuz i am a college student. is it ever ok to tolerate this kind of behavior. it is becoming regular. what should i do and how can i do it? i am bad at making decisions, especially the right ones. thanks for listening. (link)
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i know its hard and your are stressed out. youre in school have a baby and barely work. youre a good person and trying to someting with your life you need to get rid of him first becasue thats more stress on you then you already have. hopefully you have a best girl frined that can help you out with you baby but know this all good things come to good people in due time. it seems really hard for you now but you will get over it and through this. good luck
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