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help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???
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first get a dildo then you can shove it up her butt
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ok in 7th grade my best friend decided that randomally one day she was going to come out of the closet.. well see back then i was scared i mean you dont know whats gonna happen and what not but i mean it depends on how long yallve been friends and if its for a long(ish) time she wont come onto you.. and now alot of my friends are bi and im fine with bc i know that they arent gonna come onto me.. yall can still hang out during the day you dont have to spend the night together if you are that uncomfortable with it.
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Just because she's bi doesn't mean she is going to want to do something with you. If she does ask just say i'm not into that and she probally won't pressure you again.
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tell her that you just want to be friends and that your dont do that stuff. ~*L*~
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And why are you OK with this?
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Youi need to tell your friend how you feel about her sexuality. Tell her that you are fine with her being that way, but it makes you feel a little uncomfortable going to her house. And you shouldn't listen to what people say. That is how rumors are spread. Just sit down with her and explain how you feel. I'm sure she'll understand if she is your friend.
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confront her dont ever listen to 'people' because tht doesnt mean it 100% true. if shes your friend she wont get mad about you asking her about all this. maybe its best she know what people say about her. wouldnt you like her to tell you if someone was talking about you good luck
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do you want to "do stuff" with every single guy you meet? im guessing no, so a bi or gay girl isnt gonna want to do stuff with every girl she meets. those people are probably jsut homophobes that want to make her look bad
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hMm well id hang out with her and if she trys anything just be like hey im not like that...and if she keeps doing it then just ditch her next time!! good luck!
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actually, she probably does want to do "stuff" and there's nothing you can really do about it. if you like her as a friend, talk to her and tell her nothing is going to happen. if you dont care either way, then make excuses like you are busy and stuff...she'll eventually get the picture. =)
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lol well talk to her and make sure that she understands that you aren't into girls like that and that tell her what people have been saying because it's not good for people to talk about other people that are different like that and say bad stuff about them behind their back
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haha... hEy hUnNy! well that kinda sucks! bUt talk to your friend about it! make sure she knows that you to are not going to hook up with her becasue your straight... but don't stop being friends with her just because of her sexual prefrence... make sure their not rumors, because if somebody "comes out" alot of rumors get spread about them... there was this gay kid at my school and all of his friends totally stopped haning out with him because they thought that he might try and hook up with them... put it this way... gay/bi people don't like every person of their same sex just like we straight people don't like everyone from our opposite sex! bUt gOOd lUck wIth tHis baBe! hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX
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Well, if you are cool with her being bi than you should trust her and you should trust that she won't do anything with you. You can't always trust what people say. If you really feel uncomfortable with her though, than I guess you just can't go to her house. If you do go to her house and she tries something, then you just need to set her straight and tell her what is what. If she doesn't respect that, then I guess that's the end of your friendship.
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