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I never know how I should respond to the "V" question when trying to get with a girl. If I say my truthful and say no, they are like "awww, that's sweet" And pretty much never hear from them again, but I don't want to lie and have it kick me latering down the line. What should I do in this situation?
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Well, I think I guy being a virgin is an awesome thing. I think it cute...I know I just proved your point, but I think it makes a guy seem hotter. I don't know if your getting what I'm saying,but...For some girls know a guy hasn't had sex take the pressure off tehm. I mean they may feel that its not as big of a deal for you. I don't know many girls that ask about that but, just be stright about it. Be like yeah I just havn't found the right person yet. That make them aww.
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Dear V boy,
Be proud of your virginity! Being a virgin is something that most people arent anymore. Be proud to be different. Just think, you have something a lot of other people dont. You have something you can give to someone you are totally head over heels for.
Trust me hun, as a chica myself.. I think it is fantastic that you are still a virgin. Being a virgin means your clean and respectable. It means youre not some loser guy who goes around and has sex with everyone you meet.
Be proud of who you are. Any girl would be greatful to have someone like you. And in some bizzare twist of fate that you cant find someone to who likes you for who you are, hit me up. I'll take a clean, wholesome boy anyday.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
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The point hear is that instead of taking control of the situation your letting it consume you. You can't even bring your self to use the word virgin, its just the 'V' word. You need to get rid of the shame and embarrassment you have and be true to your self. My honest opinion? - I can not see in a million years that the vast majority of girls would be put of by a guy who's a virgin - quite the opposite in fact. Maybe the reason for the lack of activity in your love life is not your honesty about your vaginaty but your lack of self confidence and self esteem. These issues need to be addressed first not only for the sake of your love life but your general happiness too. For ways to improve your self confidence and take control drop a question in my inbox but your number one sours has to be your friends. Buy for now - DERFEL
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why would you lie about that??? if a girl doesnt like you for who you are, then shes a bitch... personally, id rather go out with a virgin, cause i know theres less of a chance of him having sex with another girl..
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dude what i know would work for me if i asked a guy and was all what do u think but in a very sexi charming way then try changing the subject but dont make it seem like your trying to change the subject hope that helps
lost ~N~ life
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Just tell them the truth and if they don't except you then thats alot better then lieing to a girl who would maybe lie about themselves too... Just be truthful, because i dont think anyone would want a grl/boy who lied to them.
Hope I helped, Natally
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Tell them the truth. If they don't accept that, it is their problem. Would you want a girl to lie to you about themselves? Probably not, so return the favor. Don't be in a hurry to stop being one either. There is plenty of time for that once you are old enough.
~~hope i helped~~ lyl Lexi
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Tell the truth. Trust me...You wont get yourself in trouble later on if you just tell the truth...If the girl doesn't like you just because your a virgin then shes not worth it. She should respect that cause most guys now-a-days aren't like that. I respect you very much! Just be honest and if they think its dumb there not worth any of your time!
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Basically its going to bite you in the ass either way.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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Be honest about it and tell them the truth. If they don't want to be with you just because of that, their not worth it at all. Being a virgin it's totally cool, because theres not to many of them around anymore. This just shows you have respect for girls and want the first time to be special. If they don't realize this, it's their lost for missing out on a great guy.
♥ Krissy
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Honesty is always the best policy. And a girl that doesn't want to be with you because you are a virgin isn't worth keeping around anyways.
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