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My ex b/f's new g/f hates me!
I went out with this guy (we'll call him Tim) for a few weeks but then we broke up. Now, a year later, Tim is one of my best friends. He tells me anything and always comes to me when he needs advice about his new girlfriend (we'll call her Callie). The problem is that Callie hates me! The reason why is because before Tim dated Callie, Callie had another boyfriend (we'll call him Connor). Connor dumped Callie because he thought I was hot and wanted to ask me out (which he never did). Tim said Callie hates me because she's mad that her ex boyfriend dumped her for me. I don't want her to hate me because she seems like a cool person and I don't like it when people hate me! And I know for sure that Tim is telling the truth about her hating me because he is so sweet! Please help thanks! I'll rate ya! ps. I'm 13/f
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How about you and "Callie" have a little talk. Tell her that it wasn't your fault that "Connor" broke up with her for you, and that you would really like to try to be her friend. Also tell her that it is not worth it to envy her when " Tim" is your best friend and more than likely going to back you up(well maybe not like that). If she still decides to hate you just deal with it and ignore her if she decides to say anything mean. Trust me eventually she will make herself look stupid. Good Luck I hope all goes well.!!
**Kayla**
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Talk to Callie and explain to her that you had nothing to do with Connor dumpping her. Its not like you told him to. Tell her that you want to be friends, because she goes out with one of your good friends and that you know it would mean a lot to Tim it ya'll were friends.
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talk to callie and tim and connor. explain that you did not mean to make callie mad, and that you want to be her friend cause you did not plan on connor breaking up with her. tell tim that you need him to back you up, and ask connor why he dumped callie. get callie to talk to connor too. apologize to callie (even though you really didnt do anything wrong) and tell her that you think that shes a cool person and want to get to know her better and that you didnt want to steal her boyfriend.
-FunnyCide
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Well i mean its not like you went out with her ex boyfriend "Connor" , if h said he dumped her to go out with you, and then never asked you out it was probely just a excuse to get out of the relationship, since you and Tim are like best friends and so close i dout that Callie can break you guys apart, maybe have tim talk to Callie about it and have him explain or all talk about it together, and try to become friends , that way you guys can all hav fun and there dosent have to be drama bewteen everyone.
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The talk to her, because I have/have had the same problem!!! she hates you for things that didnt happen! and, she shouldnt me mad at you! she should be mad at her boyfriend for dumping her FOR you! you didnt make him break up with her for you or anything! Girls are soo silly! well, just talk to her! and to me, it looks like you girls could be really good friends!
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