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Sorry it is long I can't help it!!
So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!
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Well the definition of popular is having a lot of friends- but she might thing you are trying to climb the social ladder. Talk to her about it and assure her that you are not rejecting her or anything- that you won't drop her for anyone. She might be just afraid of that. Maybe spend some special time with her to make her feel wanted as a friend. She obviously isn't as social as you are but unless you are willing to change there is nothing you can do about it.
Just assure her you won't drop her or anything and she should be fine.
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there is no way that i can say b/c i dont know you. neither are really "bad", just different. you can have lots of good friends and not be popular, or you can hang out and be friends with the "popular" people, but they arent always the most reliable people, its mostly a show. you have to decide which it is.
-FunnyCide
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trying to have friends is like being popular they are the exact same thing just different ways of saying it... LOL... i say cut back on trying to meet every single person in your school...and at the same time also try to inculde your friend into the things that you do with your new fiends...because i guarantee she is just lonely and misses your company so...like i said do two things 1.) cut back on meeting every single person in your school and 2.) try to inculde your friend into the things you do with your new friends...
heop i helped
kev
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Well, being popular is "like, she is like so like wierd like! Like did you like see like her like clothes like!" well when i hear the "popular clique" its like gossip, but beind friends with everyone is a great idea! just make sure that you dont leave anyone behind! just tell her that she is still you bestfriend, but you want to have other friends too! and tell her that you want other people to know that your nice and that your there for them!!!!
GOOD LUCK!
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Hope this helps!
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having lots of friends could be condsider the same as being popular, and there's no problem with wanting that, i think almost every girl at one point or another whats to have lots of friends and be popular. and it's perfectly fine as long as you don't forget your old friends, and the ones that were Always there for you. hope i helped*xoxo
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Fuck that bitch, go masturbate.
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There is nothing wrong with trying to have friends or trying to be popular just watch how you treat you old friends. Its all grand having loads of friends, but you need to remember who has been there for you.
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