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my mom hates me
my mom hates me i know she does... im 14 years old... on my 14th birthday she kicked me outta my house.... and told me it was my fault.... i dont wanna sound like im the perfect kid cause im not... but i just dont know how to make her happy it seems like im always doing something wrong.... i cant please her..... she tells all my friends parents that im a bad kid.... i spend a lot of time in my room or sleeping so idont hafta see her so icant get her mad at me... i dont know what to do anymore... i dont think i can live like this please hekp me someone....
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Talk to your school counselor. They can have the matter looked into by social services and have you removed from the house if you think it's really bad.
You could try talking to your mom and ask her what it is that you're doing wrong, but I haven't seen that go well.
Talk to your dad, if he's anywhere in the picture, or any relatives you have that could help you out by letting you stay with them or talking to your mom for you.
Sometimes it takes someone outside the picture to really wake up some people.
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all i can say about this is your mother sounds like a stone cold bitch. you're better without her. wheres your dad? are there any relatives you could stay with or talk to about this situation? how about any friends? try to talk to one of your friends parents and explain this situation to them and see if they'll let you stay with them for awhile. just never talk to your mother again. shes not even a mother. a mother is loving and kind. just because she gave birth to you doesnt mean a thing. if i were you, id try to stop pleasing her. and stay away from her. id never talk to her again as long as i live. again, you're much better off without her. just try to take things one day at a time. and try to find somewhere to stay. : im sorry i couldnt be of anymore help.
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It sounds like you and your mother need to go to some family therapy. There's obviously deep-seeded issues there. Because you guys fight so often, I doubt trying to work things out on your own would help much. You should try to talk to her about it though. Find a time when you're not fighting and you've got some time to talk about things. Tell her that you hate all the fighting. Let her know that it stresses you out and that you know it stresses her out too.
See how she reacts before you mention any sort of therapy. If she seems to react in a positive way and agrees to some extent, you could try bringing up the possibility of going to a counselor. If she argues or blames the whole thing on you, (calmly) point out that you're not saying that you don't have some fault in it, but that you just want to get along with her. Surely she can't deny that.
In the meantime, try to not break the rules as much as possible. If she tells you to call, call. If she tells you to be home at a certain time or do a chore, be home then and do the chore. It will hopefully prevent further argument until you can find her at a time that is good for both of you to talk.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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