hey i'm 13 years old and im not a geek or anything, and ithink i'm kinda pretty:-/.(i'm kinda skinny and 5 foot which i dont like, but anyways)
The only guys that have asked me out were kinda dorky, and only like one guy who i actually liked asked me out, but i misunderstood, not knowing that he liked me. This one guy who i sort of thought was cute asked me out, and I said yes, but he's kinda shy, and I don't know what to do, because he might be coming to my school, and he didn't really hang out with me or my friends when he visited, an everyone was making this huge deal about us, because someone found out. I think another guy who i might like might like me, who is really cute, but i just started going out with matthew, (and he's in 7th and im in 8th) and i don't ^really^ know him yet, and don't want to hurt his feelings(he showed me a poem about the last girl who broke up with him that was kinda creepy about how he hated her)
what should i do?(sry about it being so long!)
-needz advice!-
xOhLayLay answered Friday December 3 2004, 7:26 pm: whOa .. like they say: pimpin ain't easy! haha but really, you should go out with who YOU like. if you don't like matthew, dump him so you don't lead him on. tell him that you don't really know him + that you think you two will be better off friends. then you can date any of the young fellas trippen over you :) [ xOhLayLay's advice column | Ask xOhLayLay A Question ]
sunshine1030 answered Friday December 3 2004, 1:27 pm: well, if you're going out with Matthew just to go out with him, then that's really not fair to either of you. but if you think you might kind of like him, then stick it out for a little, and try and get to know im a little better. see what things you guys have in common, and stuff like that. you may find out that you really do like him! if not, then be fair to both of you, and break up with him, because the only thing worse than rejection, is knowing that someone is dating you because they feel bad for you, or they're scared of hurting you. but at your age, i wouldn't be too concerned about it, because guys tend to get over things pretty quickly at that age. good luck! [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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