i'm Olivia -- OhLayLay is a nickname my friend made up a long time ago when we were some gangstas. :D
i'm 14 + i'll be turning 15 in a few weeks -- December 24th. Mark it babez!
i'm a freshman at a ghetto ass school. hehe nah, it's cool. but if you want to know anything else, just leave one. :)
ask or say anything, i'm pretty open about everything + i understand pretty much everything. so, i'll answer any burning questions of yours. :) later babez xo
Gender: Female
Location: BiG Va
Occupation: Student
Member Since: December 2, 2004
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it? (link)
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aw i'm sorry :( go out with your best friends. go shopping, go get your nails done or go out to eat. scope on hot guys for fun. it always works for me :) -- your friends will always cheer you up!
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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet. (link)
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yes! deff. -- she might be pretty mad so just say it accidently got mixed up in your things.. lOl .. wowza
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Does anyone know where I can get some of those peeps candy right now? Also do they taste good in Hot Chocolate seeing as how they're crusty marshmellows???
Thanks a bunch! (link)
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i've always seen them in wal*mart. i never tried it in hot chocolate so i wouldn't know :P maybe you should try it :)
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You see, the guys at my school are pretty hot but they have really bad personalities and that is why i do not wanna ask anyone of them out. And next year, i'm going 2 an all girls school so i wont meet any guys. I cant go 2 dances cus i 4got 2 turn in my permission slip and besides, my parents wont let me. And i also cannot meet anyone new on the internet. So how do i meet any new hot guys 2 go out with? (link)
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get a couple of your friends + go to the mall, movies, or any where most people hang out at your town. there's bound to be hot guys there ;) !
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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3 (link)
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target!! they have so much stuff for rooms! :) cheap too! :D
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what is inbox how do i get inbox and why do i have inbox and how come i don't have any (link)
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an inbox is where people send you questions, the inbox is under the Welcome on the left side of the screen. you click on it + it shows if anybody sent you any questions. you get an inbox if you are an advicenator. you have one so you can store your questions. :) you prolly don't have any questions bcuz no one has asked you any. just go to Give Advice at the top of Advicenator homepage to where you can answer questions + get noticed. :)
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ive never been popular at my school, ive never been asked out by any guy (im thin, and gorgeous) and ive always been average and i stutter everytime i talk and i dont no what to talk about and there always bored of me and i hate how i act different at school then i do at home
my question is
* can someone give me tips to flirt
* can someone tell me what to talk about so i can be a little bit more popullar
desperatee (link)
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well, it's good you have some confidence :) -- first, this may not be the BEST answer.. you HAVE to be yourself. people don't like people who fake. + that's everyone. the best advice is to be nice + give compliments. :) smile + laugh -- you got to have a good time so act crazy + be spontaneous. :D for flirting, SMILE + BE NICE. lol give guys compliments + touch their arm lightly when talking. if you have anymore ?'s leave me one. :)
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any good colors for braces please list them like this
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and etc..... need advice freakin here (link)
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1) pink 2) baby blue 3) light purple 4) hot pink :) those are the only colors that i've seen that look good. mixing them up also looks good! :) black + other dark colors make you look like you have no teeth! :( clear discolors with the food you eat also. * if you're a guy, i'd get blue. :)
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my mom hits me... she tells me she hates me a lott.... i dont know how to be good enough... please help me now (link)
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sweetie, you NEED to tell a teacher, counselor, or a police officer. you need to get help right away so you'll be safe. you're good enough for everyone, don't ever doubt yourself babe. your mom is just having some problems that need to be taken care of.
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look im like 13 and ive never made out before.... i know im pathetic.... i wanna though just im wiked scared im gunna be bad at it... can anyone help me not be scared or whatever (link)
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trust me babe, it all comes naturally! + don't worry about being bad, just kiss a guy who you trust. + let him guide you when you start kissing. you will get it ;) trust me.
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle- (link)
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there's nothing you can do but wait. just love your body! (: you are young so don't rush anything! you will grow babe!
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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
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it's probably just dry or maybe it's not your right size. get a smaller size tampon.
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I need help taking care of people. I am a tough chick but need to learn how to be more tougher, and to tell people off. So if anyone can help me here please answer. Thanks.
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if you want to say something smart to them: if they say something to you, example: they called you a bitch. say: yeah i am, got a problem with it? BUT the most effective way is acting like you don't give a hoot about them. lOl hold your head up high & smile in their face. if they give you a mean look, give them a wink, smile, or a sarcastic lil wave. lOl it'll piss the hell out of them. that's the best way to being tough, acting like they don't phase you. :)
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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much
-roxy- (link)
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if anything, your town is smart :)! i think 12-15 year olds shouldn't be having sex. i think it's nasty for a 12 year old to be sexually active. bleeehh!! that's my opinion. it's really good for people in your school to be virgins + not baby mommas + baby daddies! lOl
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okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful.. (link)
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oh boy! there really isn't any way to tell somebody this in a nice way. but what i would do is avoid him. don't answer the phone if he calls, take a different path to your classes, + whatever is appropiate. if it gets to a point to where it's unbearable + he is still hanging around. tell him that your mom or dad doesn't like you hanging around a guy who is 2 years older. if he doesn't understand, tell him or else you'll be grounded. lOl maybe he'll back off, if not -- get a guy to say something to him. :\
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ok so my friend alexia has a really popular twin sister who is named ashley. i hang out with alexia but i also sometimes hang out with ashley. and alexia and i decided last year in 7th grade that we wanted to be more social and popular in 8th grade. so far things are going well but she is more popular than i am because of her sister. i guess that is just a natural advantage. and alexia has got such style and lots of clothes (because her and her sister share clothes) and if you meet alexia then she will automattically be the leader of the group just because that is part of herself i guess. so anyways i want to be like her because like guys like her and guys dont really like me. what does she do to make everyone like her? well anyways i want to be like her but dont get me wrong i love me, myself, and i and who i am but still i want to be like her. what should i do. please help!!
-ARIELLE (link)
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well, i don't know ashley so i don't know how she's popular. but really, being popular is having a lot of friends. so to get a lot of friends, is to SMILE. seriously, people like happy people who seem to be fun around. so joke a lot + laugh. say hey to people in the hallway. talk to people! do something drastic that will get people talking about you in a good way, like dying your hair. lOl or w/e. but really all there is to it, is to be NICE ! :) * be crazy + spontaneous, that doesn't hurt either! hehe :D
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hey i'm 13 years old and im not a geek or anything, and ithink i'm kinda pretty:-/.(i'm kinda skinny and 5 foot which i dont like, but anyways)
The only guys that have asked me out were kinda dorky, and only like one guy who i actually liked asked me out, but i misunderstood, not knowing that he liked me. This one guy who i sort of thought was cute asked me out, and I said yes, but he's kinda shy, and I don't know what to do, because he might be coming to my school, and he didn't really hang out with me or my friends when he visited, an everyone was making this huge deal about us, because someone found out. I think another guy who i might like might like me, who is really cute, but i just started going out with matthew, (and he's in 7th and im in 8th) and i don't ^really^ know him yet, and don't want to hurt his feelings(he showed me a poem about the last girl who broke up with him that was kinda creepy about how he hated her)
what should i do?(sry about it being so long!)
-needz advice!- (link)
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whOa .. like they say: pimpin ain't easy! haha but really, you should go out with who YOU like. if you don't like matthew, dump him so you don't lead him on. tell him that you don't really know him + that you think you two will be better off friends. then you can date any of the young fellas trippen over you :)
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Okay I am a female an I am 15 yrs old. I have always been rather skinny but I moved over a yr ago and since I moved I have gained a few pounds. I am still rather skinny, but now I have hips and I dont like it. I am about 5'6-5'7 and I way about 130lbs. My stomach is flat, and I have long legs, its just my hips. I am not comfortable with my body right now.I try and do sit ups and I walk and run alot but it doesnt seem to be helping much. I am really pretty, but I just want to lose a few pounds to feel better about myself. What is a good way to lose my hips and a few pounds? Does anyone kno of a good diet I could go on that does not involve too many calories. What do I do to lose weight? (link)
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i have big hips also + i love them. you gotta love your body! not punish it lOl -- but hm.. you shouldn't go on a diet since you're only 15. you're still growing + it's not healthy. maybe do some cardio but seriously, love your big hips! :)
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I recently started dating this guy and he seems really nice. He's in his mid 20's, he don't have any kids, and he's a gentlemen. But there's a downside. I don't know what to think about him. Something's just not right and I need yall for some support about what I feel. First of all, he has more than 1 tounge ring. Now that's weird, but I really don't see them much so I just gotten use to that. Second, he has long fingernails. I dislike when someone I date has longer nails than me. There's more! Third, he has the most unattractive walk. I like my men to have some kind of stroll and he DO NOT have that. Finally, he don't wear underwear! Now, I don't know what to think of that. People keep telling me that he's a freak or bisexual or something and that really don't sit well with me. He's a nice guy and all but I don't want to get all serious with someone who could fall for my brother. So please, tell me what yall think! (link)
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well, i don't think you two are going to work since you aren't physically attracted to him. it's not a good thing to like somebody by their looks but when it bugs you, it's time to dump them. lOl he sounds unique but maybe he isn't your type. go out + meet other guys ;)
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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yes! you also can get std's :( so use protection..!
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