okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful..
jessicasylvia answered Saturday December 4 2004, 8:16 pm: Try to let him down easily, tell him "I am so sorry but, I don't like you the same way you like me. My feelings for you aren't like that, maybe we can be friends? I understand if you wouldn't want to be." Try that.Hope I HELPED!
blondebombshell33 answered Friday December 3 2004, 11:47 pm: This guy is definately a pLaYa! (hOw aNNoYiNg!) LoL tell him that you don't wanna have a realtionship with him.. but you still wanna be friends (if you want to that is) hes definately not in love with you... hes just saying that to get in your pants... aHhhH the typical guY! refer him to a girlfriend that would be more then happy to hear from this guy... but just put it nicely that you don't waNt a relationship! good luck HuN!
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dancinqueen08 answered Friday December 3 2004, 11:20 pm: You need to tell him that you just want to be friends and that you don't like him that way. I mean he needs to know that you don't feel comfortable with him saying all that crap. Sometimes peoples feelings get hurt, but they would have gotten hurt no matter what. He would have found out eventually that you didn't like him. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
Zach_Attack answered Friday December 3 2004, 11:08 pm: you have to make sure you do it when he's alone, like over the phone so he doesnt have to be embarresed in front of people when you do it. all you have to do is be nice and say it like it is. if he doesnt get it the first time, and he keeps on bugging you, keep at it. he'll eventually leave you alone. hope i helped! =) [ Zach_Attack's advice column | Ask Zach_Attack A Question ]
xOhLayLay answered Friday December 3 2004, 10:55 pm: oh boy! there really isn't any way to tell somebody this in a nice way. but what i would do is avoid him. don't answer the phone if he calls, take a different path to your classes, + whatever is appropiate. if it gets to a point to where it's unbearable + he is still hanging around. tell him that your mom or dad doesn't like you hanging around a guy who is 2 years older. if he doesn't understand, tell him or else you'll be grounded. lOl maybe he'll back off, if not -- get a guy to say something to him. : [ xOhLayLay's advice column | Ask xOhLayLay A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Friday December 3 2004, 10:46 pm: tell him nicely that you don't want a boyfriend, and you don't want to ruin the friendship you already have. your just not ready. hope that helps :o) [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
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