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okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful..

Try to let him down easily, tell him "I am so sorry but, I don't like you the same way you like me. My feelings for you aren't like that, maybe we can be friends? I understand if you wouldn't want to be." Try that.Hope I HELPED!

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At the school dance the other night, i danced with one of my good friends who i found out liked me..and he's going to ask me out. I like him a lot as a friend and i think that I would like to give dating him a shot. Trouble is, my best friend really likes him. He doesn't like her in that way, and my best friend is a great friend to me and everybody else...now people are telling me that i shouldn't have danced with him because it was a mean thing to do to my best friend.What do i do about this whole situation?

That is not mean. Your friend may be mad but she shouldn't be. She can't make him like her because he likes her. This has happened to me before. You should tell her your sorry but you've been crushing on him for a long time and he likes you back so this may work, tell her all you need her to do is support you and wish you the best of luck. Hope I Helped.

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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much

-roxy-

My town is the same way, but some towns are rougher and more unfortunate. This is normal. Don't worry.
Hope I helped.

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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.

Yes you should, that's wrong. You can tell her you didn't mean it. Or maybe just sneak it back into her closet. That will help. Hope I helped.

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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle-

I don't know how you would feel. I am 13 and I am already in a C but just give this time. Have you had your period yet? Because if you haven't when you get your breasts will grow, just be happy be happy with yourself and in time you will get them. Hope I helped.

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Okay, one of my friends, Tamra made out with this guy back in July & Stevie, Tamra's friend, was there [ not in the room, but Tamra was at her house ] and Stevie told me while we were all at camp that the guy Tamra made out with, told her that he fingered Tamra.
Well Stevie told me not to tell Tamra, well I made the mistake of telling her this past Wednesday that Stevie told me that that guy fingered her & she had this funny face & said"eww no! Thats gross! he didnt! Stevies a liar!" But I could tell she was lying. And then I got an offline message from Stevie saying "thats bullshi* about Tamra & that guy, she told me not to tell you especially since your a goody goddy"
I dont know what to do. i know Stevie can lie sometimes but... I usually know whenever Tamra is lying cuz shes a bad liar. So I dunno who to believe!
What do I do?

Ok here is what to do. Tell Tamra to tell you the truth. tell her you wouldn't lie to her and you don't know why she would lie to you. Tell her how you feel. Ok? Hope I helped.

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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM

It is so OK to date your friend Ricky. This would be a great chance for you to forget about that loser and get out more. And since you like him that makes it better. I wish the best of luck.
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?

What I do after break ups is write poems on how I feel. Maybe if you talk to your boyfriend about the problem and say can we still be friends. You might feel better. Try to get out more too, or maybe it might be time to whip out the pint of ice cream and a sad movie and some tissues. That might help to. But just try to figure out the problem and to treat yourself right.
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

14 days after her period an egg starts to go in her ovary system so that is when you don't want to have sex then. But you should ALWAYS wear a condom, just to be safe. I am sure you too will be fine. Best of luck.

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