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Question Posted Friday December 3 2004, 11:13 am

Ok i need help on how to know how to deal w/my sisters b/c they have such a bad attitude and the oldest one figured out how to get into my room by unlocking my door. i kno for a fact i can't trust her but what can i do to maker her listen and stay out of my business b/c i've tried like everything and nothing worked so far. i need help on this one.
Also my family isn't working out b/c my step mom is such a pain ans dome tiem she doesn't understan my probs. what can i do?


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dinoold answered Friday December 3 2004, 3:57 pm:
You know what..how would YOUR parents like..if your sisters went INTO their room and snooped around..not very good I suspect...so family meeting time.

Your ssiter need to respect your stuff..the FACT that THEY picked your lock..show to me..that DOWn the line your dad and stepmom are GOING to have a pack of trouble on their hands
Print this..show mom and step.

Hey...anyone who goes into a room without permission and picks the LOCK to do it..is tresspassing..so unless you take YOUR daughters IN hadn..trust me..YOUR room and stuff will be next..if not already..so give them a HUGE punishment..and TAKE back your household.

Ad for your stepmom..you two ahve tog et along..see I agree wiht Dr. Laura about blending new families..i think unitl children are out of the house..adults should put THEIR needs last..but hey...what do I know..

She is your stepmom..you need to respect her..and she needs to respect you....and YOUR Dad..needs to get off his duff and start refering this mess hHE created...

I am sorry..this SHOULD not be happening to you..

Ps when you print this and show your parents tell them I am a mother of two and shame on the for letting your sisters become holligans!!!!.

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sunshine1030 answered Friday December 3 2004, 11:20 am:
This seems like an issue for adults to handle. You need to talk to your mom or dad (whoever you live with-i'm assuming your dad because you mentioned your stepmom), and you need to tell them what's going on. tell them exactly what you told us here, that your sister goes into your room, and that she won't stay out of your private business. hopefully they will understand that this is a big issue, and they will talk to her, and figure something out. if that doesn't work, maybe try talking to a trusted teacher in school, or some other adult figure that you trust, and ask them what they think you should do. i hope this helped, and good luck!

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