its kinda depressing ...especially around the holidays....
Question Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 9:31 pm
hey..im in 10th grade and i havent had a serious boyfriend since 8th grade. I hate being single. I want to meet someone great, and it doesnt look lke thats ever going to happen, especially in my school. It just gets kind of depressing, especially around this time of year. What if I dont have another bf until after high school!? I cant wait that long..what can i do? if anything?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x3candiiLipsx3 answered Saturday December 4 2004, 9:05 pm: well hun, you cant just go scoping out for a boyfriend, i think that one day while you are out doing something not even thinking about boys you are just going to see that one guy and say thats him i want to get to know him.. and its just gunna happen so quickly.. see you dont wanna sound desperate cause the last thing a guy wants to know is that your so desperate for a bofriend! i am single right now too and yeah i get down since its holiday time and i see people holding hands being all cuddly but i just think thats definatly going to be me soon! and also friends are definatly there to support you! x3 [ x3candiiLipsx3's advice column | Ask x3candiiLipsx3 A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Saturday December 4 2004, 11:30 am: try getting into clubs at school or try talking and being more open just remember that there is always somebody out there for someone and that there is plenty fish in the sea and even if you don't get a boyfriend doen't mean you won't get one in the future just think good thoughta don't jynx it. [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
wiggylilweirdo answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:10 pm: Well, if you really want a boyfriend and there is no one at your school then try joing some kind of group (church, sports team, county play,ect.)If not try going to the movies or a skating rink with friends a try to pick some guys up. Now,I'm not telling you to go be a whore or anything, just go up to a guy and try to have a friendly chat...if things go well give him your number (or get his) and see where things go from there. [ wiggylilweirdo's advice column | Ask wiggylilweirdo A Question ]
Kels17 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 10:43 pm: Whatever you do dont get desperate its bad! just tell people who u like and get your friends to ask boys you like out for you and they will look at you more and more then like you [ Kels17's advice column | Ask Kels17 A Question ]
Cath answered Thursday December 2 2004, 10:33 pm: Hi Sweetie,
l.o.l. ...Sorry. Yeah, at times we feel alone and... it sucks. There's lots of ways to meet guys. ...Going to concerts and flirting with starngers that look around your age (it's eassier to be crazy when you know that if you don't like them or they don't like you, you don't have nto see them anymore). Not a good idea? Well you can try something in the privacy of your own home or room or living room (l.o.l. sounds funny, I know). Go to www.MySpace.com and post your picture or something and look through the many guy profiles with their picture and start a friendship with them. ...A friendship with potential. Sounds weird, I know, cut its just a suggestion. I don't do that myself but I know tons of people who've done it and had a great relationship with someone they met online. Just remember: BE SAFE.
My best wishes! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
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