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please read! so sorry its long!
I liked this guy at the beggining of the year and he was becoming one of my best guy friends. I always had a crush on him and we would always flirt a lot. Everyone always said oh my gosh you guys would make the cutest couple and oh my gosh you guys should so go out. Before I didnt want him to know that I liked him so I always said noo never hes my friend! I always thought that he might have a lil crush on me because we flirt so much and at the movies I would snuggle with him. Now like 5 months passed and I`ve been getting over him because he was going out with one of my best friends on and off and no one ever knew that I liked him so I let it go and forgot about him. I have a boyfriend and I've been going out with him for almost 4 months. Now me and this other guy still flirt and 3 other guys like me. He is always telling me if some1 is messing with me that he would punch them and stuff. Couple days ago we were talking and he was like did you used to like me and I was like hmm ... maybe and he goes I could always tell but U wasnt sure.He knows that I liked him then he asked if I didnt have a boyfriend would I still go out with him. He told me if he knew that I liked him that he would ask me out. but that was then anyways.. like when ever we talk and we joke around and stuff he always looks at my boobs and stuff and messed with me n laughs. he told me that he liked me and he always writes all this stuff over aim like give me head please and he would say lol and he was like show me your boobies and i dono if its just a joke or something. am i a horrible person for just lettin him say all this stuff.. i love my boyfriend really much but he doesnt treat me that good .. long story but its not that bad but sometimes i feel guilty for some reason. this other guy is really sweet and so is my boyfriend at times. not to mention everyone wanted us to break up but now its settled down. what do i do? i am soo confused? i dont kno if the only thing this other guy wants is to get some from me but im not like that and im not sure if he likes me. i like flirting with him and stuff but i dont know. im really sorry if this is confusing and that its long but i really need advice. thanks i rate 5`s!
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ok. in my opinion, i think you shouldn't think anything of it, until something he does-physical-happens. you can still flirt with him, i think thats healthy. if your bf doesn't treat you rite all the time then talk to him about it . and the guy that is sweet to you...take an interest in him, maybe get close- only as friends for now- and see what hes like. if you already know, then i think you should hang out with him more. i hope everything works out ok.
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This isn't confusing at all, it's just very long. Well for your first question, you aren't a horrible person, it's just that you shouldn't have let this guy say these things to you because you do have a boyfriend but it's not like you said anything back. It sounds like this guy only wants you so he can do stuff with you but he probably was just horny then. If he liked you before, then he probably still does. You need to talk to him and get everything straight with him. Ask him questions about the past and such and get your answers. Before this guy actually started being more "sexual" as in he was looking at your chest and said things like if you want to give him oral sex and such, he was actually nice and it seemed that he liked you. You need to ask him if there would be a chance that you two could ever go out in the future if both of you were single. If you still like him, even though your feelings for him are gone, you will always remember them and you should ask him this if you do. Tell him that you have a boyfriend and that he shouldn't be saying "sexual" things to you anymore. Just let him know how you feel about everything that has happened.
-Karen
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um im sry but i dont understand wat u wrote there
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