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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months this guy jake all of the sudden starts liking me and all of my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with jake because jake seems way nicer and that he would treat me better. they say this because my boyfriend is kind of scared to make the first move and its fine im not in no big hurry but jake n i were talking and he said that my boyfriend doesnt give me what i want and he was talking about .. you know.. well c i dont know if jake only likes me for that or because of my personality and stuff and he said i was awesome n nice ? help
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Your boyfriend doesn't like making the first moves because he wants to be a good boyfriend. I had a boyfriend like that. He liked me controlling the speed so I could feel more comfortable with him. My suggestion through experience is don't break up with your boyfriend unless you have a really good reason to. Another guy is not a very good reason unless you like them way more than your boyfriend. But from past experience, don't let them go to soon. You'll regret it if you weren't 100% positive.
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stay with your boyfriend. i don't like how this jake guy and his intentions sound...
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dont let your friends tell you who to be with. if your happy with your boyfriend than dont listen to your friends. if i listened to my friends i wouldnt have been in a relationship thats 1 1/2 years and still going. and im happier than i ever was. dont let anyone tell you who to date. do what you feel is right. hope i helped any.
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well you dont have to listen to what ur friends say all the time go by what your heart tells you and go with the guy you realli like, but also need to talk to jake about this whole thing.
hope i helped.
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I don't think you should break up with your boyfriend, just because your friends want you with Jake. If you like your boyfriend, stay with him. It looks like your boyfriend actually cares about you and that is why he's taking everything slow. It looks like this Jake guy, might be in it just to get some skin. He's always saying that your boyfriend isn't giving you what you want and such. He sounds pretty strange if you ask me. If I were you, I'd stay with your boyfriend. It looks like he's the one that is treating you right.
♥ Krissy
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I think you should stay with your boyfriend. So? hes a little shy about making the first move. there's ntohing wrong witht hat and i'm sure he'll move fast the mosr compohortable he feels. As long as your happy with him and he's treated you well, there's no good reason to leave him. Jake sounds like he only likes you cause he wants a little something. Atleast you know your boyfriend won't preasure you into anything.
Follow your heart, x0x Jordy|♥
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You don't have to listen to your friends that tell you to dump your boyfriend, just because he is nervous or scared to make a move and that Jake is nicer and would treat you better. Your boyfriend can be nice too and he can treat you better too, it's just that he is moving at a slow pace. If you are fine with him being afraid to make the first move, then you should stay with him and not dump him for Jake. Jake may only like you for that but then again, he may not. You just need to talk to Jake and find out why he likes you or why he would want to go out with you. If you like your boyfriend, then stay with him but if you like Jake, dump your boyfriend and go out with him but make sure he will date you before you actually dump your boyfriend. Just do what you want to do.
-Karen
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from eperience, don't break up with your bf becuz of your friends. if jake likes you for the things hell get from you then dont go out wiht him. but if he likes your personality and you then i would see. if your bf doesn't treat you right like givin you attention then i would/might break up wiht him. in my opinion just let things happen rightnow.
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Who do you love.Don't break up with your boyfriend if you love him.If you don't love your boyfriend break up with him.Also, if your boyfriend treats you bad then get rid of him.But don't leave someone just because your friends say so.Do what your heart thinks.
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