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x boyfriend !


Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 5:08 pm

14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high)


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Silly_Love_Song answered Saturday September 24 2005, 2:33 pm:
OK, here goes...

1) You've been broken up for NINE MONTHS!!! He's probably moved on.
2) He has a new girlfriend....he's DEFINETElY moved on.
3) He's a lunatic? Then why do you still like him?
4) You still love him, but he's a lunatic and your friends hate him. Which one is more important, a boyfriend or your friends?
5) If he told you to stop talking to him, how could that POSSIBLY mean he still likes you?
6) He blocked you. Well, further proof that he has moved on, and probably hates you.

To answer your question. YES! MOVE ON!
*Carrie

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BurnetteBaby13579 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:02 pm:
You should definetly move on. He's oviously moved on, and now it's your turn. Focus on your friends and family and don't let him bother you. Spend a lot of time wth your friends and maybe talk to them about how you feel, that's what friends are for, right?? Someday you'll find somebody. Just let your X be, maybe you two will go out again. You never know.

~MoRtY~

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Carebear221 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:52 pm:


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hopeihelped answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:32 pm:
You've been broken up, you're friends don't approve of him, he hangs out with people you don't like, he doesn't want to talk to you...

MOVE ON! I'm sorry darling, but this dude isn't for you.

Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!

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Michelley answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:25 pm:
Move on...if there has one thing I've learned..it's that your friends are usually right when it comes to guys. I seriously liked this guy forEVER and every single one of my friends told me he was a jerk and not as nice as he seems. I so didn't believe them but then he did smthn so increadable that I couldn't believe it (*I was seriously shocked)...and they were right- he is a jerk. If you still "love" him, then you'll probably never be completely over him...but he has another girlfriend and you probably hate her bc shes opposite of you..and a great match for him. Theres like..no way to know why he doesn't want you to talk to him..it might be his g/f being jealous and controlling who he talks to..but the best thing is to not talk to him and if he really has feelings for you..he'll either talk to YOU or he won't...just let everything happen and don't try to force him to talk to you or anything
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:17 pm:
You should definitely move and and forget about this guy. You don't deserve to be told not to talk to someone. If he still has feelings for you, he'll come back for you, once he learns he made a big mistake. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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bAbiixPhAtT3 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:12 pm:
it will probably be hard but i think you should just move on and find someone better who is right for you

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx

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il0v33m0 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:07 pm:
Move on hun. INDEPENDANCE.. such a beautious thing. If you're friend were telling you they didn't like him, LISTEN TO THEM. Your friends are gonna be there for you through it all, and they know best most times. They see more than you do when you're crushing on someone.. and if YOU know he's wrong for you too, then just let go. :( I know it hurts.


♥ Ashleigh

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xoxbellabebexox answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:52 pm:
re read what you wrote then think to yourself what you just wrote it will make sence then.
hope it helps

luv Britt

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Farren answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:50 pm:
Move on. You know that's what you should do, so why ask Advicenators? I guess you just wanted a confirmation that it's the right thing to do, well, here it is. Good luck with that.
-Farren

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4thofjuly answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:38 pm:
okay girlie. move on. if he still has feelings for you then hell go afta you. but if not your already movin on anyway.

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hiximchristine answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:36 pm:
If i were you, i would DEFF. move on. I mean i know having feelings for your ex is still hard, but still you should move onn..he isnt right for you if hes gonna be a jerk! UHm, try to find someone new, someone who makes you feel better than how he treats you. TRY iT!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:26 pm:
yeah move on get away from him. He doesnt seem right for you anyways. You even think so for yourself. And lol that wasnt confusing. I followed thru very well-trixxy

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Shortie8959 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:23 pm:
Just try to move on. It's hard, but this happens a lot. Just try to flirt with other guys and get to know them. Once you're around more guys, you'll forget about him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Ana21 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:23 pm:
hes showing that he really doesnt want to have any contact with you. give him a whle to think about what he wants. now if hes bad for you, like bad influince, or rude, forget him. i know its hard to do, but you have to move on. trust me, youll find someone thats rite for you! hope i helped!
~*ana

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