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not sure what to do....


Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 5:09 pm

okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday January 10 2005, 4:49 pm:
If you really would prefer to keep your friend over the guy then I say back off, your friend might dump him later anyways, and if he really likes you he'll dump her. All you have to do is be patient and see what comes of it..

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soulwayz answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:43 pm:
Well, if you like him too you should let her know that...in a nice way...but you should let him know too. You dont want to lose a best friend over some guy! But maybe if you talk to her she might understand or you might...hopefully one of you will move on so all works out well but if it doesnt i think you should agree w/ her that its not worth losing a best friend over so tell him together (you have to be with her) that for now you think you should all just be close friends and hang out together instead of getting involved w/ the whole g/f b/f thing.

Hope I helped!
-Hannah

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SarBear456 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:29 pm:
Talk to her about it..if your friend really dislikes you both going out again, take what she says seriously. Remember, don't lose a good friend over a boy. Its NEVER worth it.

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sweetjewel answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:45 pm:
if you really like this friend and dont wanna loose her then wait a few weeks or ask her if its ok if you go for it. if you are willing to hurt your friendship then go for it

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XxXHyperGirlXxX answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:36 pm:
Just go out wiht him!

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bAbiixPhAtT3 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:10 pm:
she took him from you first and if she was really your friend she wouldnt of even gone out with him after you broke up with him and its not your problem if she still likes him cuz he was yours first and if he doesnt like her and he likes you then thats her problem and if she hates you for it then she wasnt a good friend.

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx

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Ana21 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:37 pm:
ask her how she would feel if you went out with him again. he does like you, and you like him too. you should give it a try, because if shes your real friend, she wont stop being your friend just because of a guy. she cant tell you what to do jsut because she wants him, so do what ever you feel is right, and what ever happens happens. hope i helped
~*ana

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xoxsweetashley91 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:35 pm:
I would wait a while to see maybe she might get over him. I would find out for sure who HE likes because its not your fault if he likes you and not her. I hope I helped! Please rate!

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funkyfresh answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:24 pm:
Hmm, I think that since you went out with him before it shouldnt matter to your friend. It is your feelings what does it matter to her? You can try to get them back together or you can just let it pass!
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