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Waiting for him
I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH
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heehee...I tend to agree with superwoman.
But seriously, I went through this very SAME THING at 22. No kidding. Only the guy was 30-ish, but same-same. The whole thing ended up messing me up pretty seriously, cause even though it wa'nt my plan, I got hooked. I fell really hard, and none of my feelings were ever reciprocated or acknowledged. I totally bottomed out on self-esteem, and for a good many years, ended up making stupid choices in the man department.
The fact that you're even asking this means you feel something already.
Do the tough thing and ask him WTF. If he isn't on the same level as you are, it'll hurt, but less so than it would later.
And if he is gay, at least you'll have a lifetime shopping partner, THEN you can go and find someone to 'partner' with in other ways :D
xo
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Well... it seems he is having a bit of an issuse with his ex but maybe you should talk to him maybe ask him what if you make the first move on him would he follow.. or something to that effect... cause it could help move your relationship onward... good luck Ashlee
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he said he wants to take things slow... i guess he just meant really slow. if you dont think its worth the wait then move on
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Sheesh. It sounds like an issue to me. You obviously care deeply for this guy, and he never asked you out? Maybe that means he's afraid to commit, or even that he's with different girls constantly. Have you ever asked? I think you should just ask him straight up, "Are we together?" There are different things to consider, how does he introduce you, as his girlfriend, or friend? Bluntness is the best way to go about it. Just ask what's up. There's no need to waste your time with someone who doesn't even want to be with you full time. :-p
♥ Ashleigh
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well his last g/f did hurt him so hes probably afraid of comitment. just continue to take it slow for him and if this keeps up for a really long time then just talk to him about it.
hope i helped!
((steph))
p.s. u definitly dont rate high
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dont stress bout it. like he said, he wants to take things slow, because hes afraid to get hurt again. you should respect his wishes, and not push too hard. what you're doing right now is good, and its obvious that he does like you. if you give him a little while, he'll warm up to you. dont worry about it. hope i helped
~*ana
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