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im not sure
in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this...
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Don't feel obligated to give into him just because of his looks. A lot of guys that are really ugly are the nicest people. And if I were you I would tell someone he is sexually abusing you like that. But anyway, just because you are physically attracted to him doesn't mean you should take a chance like that.. I mean, have you even considered that he would just leave you after that one time.. what if you got pregnant, he probably wouldn't want the responsibility.
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If I were you i would just keep it as a crush. Because if he has a reputation and you start to go out or something you might get one. And if hes all about sex then you might end up getting hurt or lose your virginty over a HOTT JERK! lol
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Go out with him if you like him. But!! lol DONT do anything with him if your not ready. If he trys to do something and hes making you uncomfortable, dont be afraid to tell him no and leave. NO guy is worth losing your virginity to if your not ready.
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I think that you need to tell him that you like him.. but if you only think he is cute then i wouldnt bother you need to no things about him, like talk to him.. get to no him trade numbers. if you to do get together tell him you at least want to keep ur virgenity till freashman year or how eva long u want to. Good Luck Ashlee
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i wouldn't go out w/ him if i were you! if all he's interested in is sex...then he's soooooo not worth it! especially if you want to remain a virgin until your freshman year! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
P.S.-i wouldn't ahve sex until after high school if i were you!
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If you want to, go out with him. But if he tries to do anything sexual, just tell him no and leave. Also, don't go to his house alone, or don't stay at your house alone. Maybe you two could also just be friends. Remember not to let boyz force you into things you don't want to do, because that's a serious problem. Be a leader, not a follower. You're nobody's doormat!!!! Good luck, and hope things go well.
~MoRtY~
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just go out with him but if he pressures for sex just say no
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You might as well take a chance with him, but if it turns out all he wants is sex (which is probably true since it's a teenage guy), then don't even bother with him. If you're not ready for sex, then don't put yourself in a situation where you'd be pressured into it. You can still have your little crush and everything, but don't get involved with him. Try and find someone who is cute and isn't just in it for the sex.
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I would just tell him upfront that you aren't interested in having sex. If it really is all he's interested in, then he isn't worth it. There are plenty of guys out there who will respect you, and if he isn't one of them, then forget about him! Don't sacrifice your values for a "cute" guy. Hope I helped =)
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If you like this guy, give him a chance and go out with him. If he wants to have sex, tell him that you don't want to and he has to understand that. If he doesn't, then just break the relationship up. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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well you can be flirty with him and go out with him if you like him. dont judge him when you dont know him. he may not be like that, he may have had sex with a few people and the word got out about it. you dont have to have sex with him if you dont want to. thats your choice. if he asks you then tell him your not ready. if he cant accept this then hes not a good boyfriend.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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well smile at him and if u asks u out than go out with him and if he wants to do it with just say that your not ready, problem solved.
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well babe, you should never loose your virginity to the first guy you go out with (if it is). I mean if your not ready, DONT DO IT. You should never be "peer pressured" into having sex. When you are ready, and your sure you found the right guy..then it should & will be perfect! But even if he likes you, tlk to him about it, ask him out or give him a sign that you like him too. I bet he really likes you, i dont think hes just looking for sex..i mean some guys are like that but not all! Just stay strong<3
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flirt back! but dont go all the way. since you like him, flirt back, but if he starts being like" ok lets go have sex" tell him that thats not what youre looking for. tell him how youre feeling, and that youre not interested into having sex yet. tell him, and if he respects you and starts taking things slow, keep hi, but if hes like "you dont wana have sex, so dont talk to me" forget about him because hes no good! hope i helped
~*ana
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Well, I think deep down you already know the right answer to this. You should never ever sacrifice your morals or respect for yourself, especially so for a boy. There are going to be lots of guys you are going to come across throughout highschool; some good, some bad. You have to weed out the bad ones. So, with that said: The guy may be cute and great and all, but if he's just going to use you for something you are not ready to do, DO NOT DO IT. Stand up for yourself. Don't ruin your reputation all because of one guy. On the other hand, if you really really feel like this guy couldb e sincere about his intentions you could give him a chance, but just keep your gaurd WAY UP. The minute he starts to pressure you to do something you aren't ready to do, WALK AWAY. Take charge! :)
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