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My bestfiend looks at me when im undressing
my bestfriend looks at me when she spends the night over at my house in a weird way...like when we are gettin ready to go to bed i catch her lookin at me when im changin i really feel uncomfortable and i want her to stop but i dont know how to bring it up and i dont want to start a huge fight and i still want to be friends but im just not like that....what should i do?
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ask her kind of in a playful way. i totally know what you mean cuz that happened to me. it turned out to be nothing. if ya`ll are good friends it shouldn`t be hard cuz ya`ll can talk to each other about stuff. don`t approach her like in a bad mood and don`t be too sarcastic.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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This is where you play with her mind and say ''Girl you looking like you want this you want this mmm'' ask her and see what she said? If she said she do want it say well you know I'm not like that right! That should take care of it.
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Just pretend that it doesn't bother you..turn to her n say "boo?" or.."gotta staring problem?" but ina friendly way and then giggle er summin..like your just kidding..maybe shell get tha hint..
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before you change tell her okay dont look alright and if that wont work leave the room and if that still wont work tel her be like okay could you quite looking at me like that your fereaking me out
hope it helped
kati marie
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Sometimes girls are just curious about what other girls' bodies look like, ya' know? They're just tryin' to make sure that their body looks like the other person's. It makes them feel normal.
OR...
It could always be something else.
Regardless, since it makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to tell her in the nicest way possible that it's bugging you. And for that, I'd refer to what the other people that have replied to this question have said. They seem to have the right idea. :D
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umm...girl, you need to ask her straight out. or ask her opinion about girlz staring at other gurlz. ...if she doesnt stop...i dont think she should be goin to your house...cuz your not likehtat...good luck
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Dear my best friend looks at me when im undressing,
my friend does that too to me! Just do the same to her or ask why shes giving you that face.if that dsn't work, well just don't have her over that much.
from adviceallstar
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Well.. tell her your feelings and if she doesnt stop then.. shes a lez
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Most likely, your friend is not looking at you because she is interested in you as more than a friend. Probably she is looking more to compare how she looks to how you look. Most people want to feel like they are "normal" in how they look as well as other things. The only way to check is by comparing with other people.
If it makes you really uncomfortable, mention it in a way that makes it seem like its not about her. You could say something like "It makes me feel weird for other people to see me change clothes." That way she won't feel like you're attacking her personally.
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Change in the bathroom!
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Some girls are just curious about other girls bodies. As you get to this age, girls compare themselves. You could change in the bathroom or in a different room. That would solve things. Don't worry about it too much. I'm sure she'll stop.
~MoRtY~
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you rely dont have to confront her. YOu can always just change in your bathroom. Say that u usally do it in there if she asks.
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let her touch you as you do it. she likes your body, take it as a compliment. or kill her, your choice.
-hitler
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shes a les... and she wants you.. you better watch it while your sleeping
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Well i'm thinking that you probably think she's a lesbian. She probably isn't but the only way she could stop is if you tell her or avoid her... Why don't you try having less sleep overs or if you do, change in the bathroom with the door locked. I know you want to set her feelings aside so i suggest you just go in another room when you want to change.
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Hello,
Yes I understand the situation. I know what you mean that has happened to a friend of mine before. I think you need to let her know because if you do it will just become worse for you. I think you should tell her "I just wanted to let you know that I feel like whenever I am undressin' you are lookin' at me, I am not trying to accuse you of something but its putting me in a weird position. I of course want to still be your friend but I just want to know whats up." Something nice, but something that gets the message to her. This is a tough situation, good luck!
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