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i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..
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I was in this same situation last year. I liked a guy, but I was a senior and he was a freshman, but It just felt so right. I knew I wanted to ask him to prom (just to state fact, I was not yet 18, so it was legal).. so anyways, I had a friend ask him if he were to be asked by a girl to prom would he say yes. Of course he knew it was me, because I always got so nervous around him. It ended up we went to prom and ended up going out. We are not together now but it was worth it. I think mainly, you should talk to him and I know you dont want to hear that. But babe, trust me it will be worth it in the end. So to get over your nerves with talking to new people, be with a bunch of friends when you talk to him the first time. With my ex, he and i always ate lunch together, but all my friends were there too... it eased the tension so much more. But I have a question for you, if he is so new to you, why do you want to go out with him? You should get to know the person well enough before you start going out. That is a mistake a lot of people make in High school. I met the guy I am with now, my freshman year of high school, and I am now a freshman in college and we just started going out this summer, andit has been a good happy relationship.
So basically down to it, if you want to approach him, bring good friends along for support.
Lots of Love and good luck!
College Girl in NH
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Since you don't want to go up and talk to him, you could get one of your friends that knows him to introduce both of you guys. Then maybe that way you won't be so shy having your friend with you. And then you guys can start hanging out and such!
♥ Krissy
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That is really the only thing you can do besides just sitting there and gaze at him. So you do need to go up to him. Not neccesarily alone but you need to do something. If you want to be his friend or more-trix
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have a friend that knows him introduce you... and maybe you can start hanging with him.
Good Luck hun.
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