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Question Posted Friday January 28 2005, 8:38 pm

I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

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jAyMiLyNnE answered Saturday January 29 2005, 8:31 pm:
hun just tell him that you want to get to know him or sumthing.. i mean dont lie to him but think about it tell him you dont like him like that..

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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday January 29 2005, 7:20 pm:
listen to your heart... don't have your friend tell you who to like. If he asks you just be like i'm not interested in you that way but i just wanna be good friends and then we'll see what happens

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lishaxjean answered Saturday January 29 2005, 4:16 pm:
do what YOU want to do and what YOU need to do because she could just be saying that to get him to go out with someone she's comfortable with. ya understand?

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Toca_says answered Friday January 28 2005, 11:06 pm:
don't go out with him... i hate people that go out with kids just cause they feel sorry for them... it's a bitchy thing to do.. so0o tell him no.. he'll get over it.. and if he doesn't that's kinda sad.. you could try to find someone else for him.. and talk to him about it... hope i helped =)

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4thofjuly answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:49 pm:
just go out for rite now then dump him...or if you want to be nice, talk to him about your friend emily. hope everything works out.

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advice_all_star answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:45 pm:
well,take the guy u like and go on a date with him and don't pay attention to Justin. make justin jealous of you going out with ur boy and he will move on!

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SunShineAngel3 answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:37 pm:
i definitally say follow your instincts and heart, who cares what your friend says if you dont like him like that
kati marie

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angelbabi91 answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:30 pm:
well you shouldnt go out with someone that you dont like, that would just be dumb! sometimes, even though they're trying to do the right thing and help out, they're really not! i mean come on, we've all done it at least a few times! just tell her that you dont want to go out with him and if she still pushed the situation and he does end up asking you out just tell him no. you really shouldnt tell him yes just because you wouldnt be being fair to you or him. if you friend doesnt understand right away then dont worry about it! she'll eventully get it!
~Haley~

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hitler_the_goat answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:18 pm:
hit it.
-hitler

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CrayolaJenn210 answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:58 pm:
You should be honest and say "You are good as a friend, but I don't have feelings for you like that." I know it sucks, but it's the truth and it is better to tell him and your friend the truth, rather than leading Justin on if you said yes. Good Luck!

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:21 pm:
its your own decion(sp) and you shouldnt base it on your friends opinion..do what you want

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Drama_Secretary answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:04 pm:
Your friend is probably saying you should go out with him because she's nice and doesn't want people's feelings hurt. My suggestion is say no if you don't like him. If you say yes, you'll be miserable and he'll end up getting that vibe and will probably feel worse because he was a pity date. Do what you want to do. When it comes to love, impulses are the best way to go.

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itsz_JESS answered Friday January 28 2005, 8:56 pm:
tell her that you dont like the guy and that you like someone else. if shes still going to force you, shes not a great friend. lol ♥ jess

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angieroonie answered Friday January 28 2005, 8:50 pm:
you live YOUR life. do what YOU want. your friend should understand. say no to him. he'll get over it!!! ;)

~ANGE

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