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Well, what to write about me. I'm very outgoing and loud around everyone just because I really don't care what people think about me. I'm really easy to get along with and I like helping people w/ their problems. That's why I got this! lol, neways. I can be a big dork and I like to have fun but I know when it's time to get serious. I like to do a lot of things especially write and sing, singing / music / writing are my passions. They're my one and only true loves. Anyways..ask me anything and i'll give ya some advice! You choose to take it or not!
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13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do??
you're growing up. no one can make you do anything that you don't want to do. make your own decisions and your own mistakes. and thongs really aren't that big of a deal, no offense. i watched the movie thirteen and thuoght the girls were just a lil crazy but i liked it. 13 year olds really shouldn't be having sex and doing drugs and stuff. ..urges are normal. just to let you know
I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?
do what YOU want to do and what YOU need to do because she could just be saying that to get him to go out with someone she's comfortable with. ya understand?
ok um, the girl i'm with as of current LOVES it when i kiss her neck, are there any other spots that make girls go crazy when u kiss them there?
-open for suggestions, thanks ^__*-
me being a girl. i love it when guys kiss my neck maybe kiss her stomach or something because that's definetly hott and her ears. i love those 2. let her do stuff to you too but if you wanna be more dominate then go right ahead. hope i helped a lil! (rate me pleez!)
what happens to the soul who commits suicide? what is life after death?
ok. me being a christian and reading the bible..i know a thing or 2 about suicide and life after death. lol. if you commit suicide you condemn yourself to hell. you're soul will go to hell and spend forever there becuase you decided to take your life before god did. and even though i am a christian i believe in life after death meaning some people have unfinished business or haven't done everything they needed to do in their life and are ghosts. you can have many different life after death scenarios. it's hard to explain all of them but i hoped i helped just a lil bit! (rate me pleez!)
i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks
yeah it's gonna be swollen. i had mine done before. if you got it done w/ an ear peircing gun thought you might want to go get it changed to a hoop if it isn't already a hoop because studs in the cartilage tend to get infected. that's what happened to mine but if you got it done with a needle then you're totally fine. hope i didn't scare ya. any more peircing advice. come ask me *AliCia*
Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do....
you're officially a teen now! lots of us cry everyday. take me for example. we don't do it for other people to see us. we just do. i'm an avid thinker and once i get thinking about stuff. i don't stop till i know what it is i wanted to find and sometimes i get depressed and cry over it. what you can do is get out! hang out w/ friends! go to a movie! have friends over and watch movies! hang out with the girls! those will all make you feel a lot better! trust me! hope i helped! need anything else..ask me! *AliCia*
Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon?
yeah hun..you'll be starting it soon.
i have a boyfriend who i love VERY much. we (his name is corey) went out for 4 months and then we broke up. when we broke up he went out with my best friend and then they broke up. then he went out with my other best friend to try to get over me and things led to other things.... she was moving really fast and he didnt want to get made fun of so he just went along with everything. well she gave him a blowjob. he broke up with her right after because he found out i still liked him. he regretted the whole thing. i was have a really tough time dealing with everything. then i went off to highschool before him *hes a year younger than me* and i got a new boyfriend. i went out with him for 7 and a half months but i didnt want to be with him. we were kinda off and on for a long time. things happened between me and him that i didnt want to happen, but i didnt know how to say no. i never did anythng to him... he did things to me sexually. and then i finally got the courage to break up with him. all my self esteem was gone by now, as u could probably imagine. i still liked corey a LOT and so we started talking again and we got back together. weve been together for over 3 months and i keep thinking about what happened between him and my ex-best friend. i just cant seem to get past it. he regrets ever doing it and he knows how bad it hurt me. we have talked about it, we have cried about it. i just dont know what to do to get over the past. i keep picturing what happened. and corey cant get over it either, he gets upset about it all the time. how do we get over it and what do we do about it? thanks for any advice you can give me.
i think you two need to sit down and have a big conversation about what all happened between everything. because if you don't. it is just gonna linger there for a really long time and you both are gonna be upset about it. why did he go out with your ex best friend? just ask him the questions that you want answered and let him answer and ask you questions too. maybe that's the only way you 2 can ever get it figured out. but congrats on getting him back