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CONFUSED @ LIFE!
13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do??
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i'd say not to think in a moralistic manner, and be rational about it, like anyone else should (age is irrelevant, as far as i'm concerned). you can have fun, just don't hurt yourself (by becoming addicted to cigarettes, for example).
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i guess this might be normal. i mean everyone does stuff behind their parents backs. i watched that movie and i was like omg i cant believe they did that. i guess its your opinion.
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Oh my gosh!! i cant belive you BOught a THONG (OH NO) and you drank your moms wive (your so bad) HAHA
Ill give u some good advice~ DONT get caught or else that will be bad for you!
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you're growing up. no one can make you do anything that you don't want to do. make your own decisions and your own mistakes. and thongs really aren't that big of a deal, no offense. i watched the movie thirteen and thuoght the girls were just a lil crazy but i liked it. 13 year olds really shouldn't be having sex and doing drugs and stuff. ..urges are normal. just to let you know
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it's hormones but don't get caught up in the smoking and drinking. nuh uh. im 13 and i want the hard guy, i want to be all dirty or w/e, but hey it's not me. so just calm down
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OK, first off you are 13 you have plenty of time to do all those things. Smoking and drinking can kill you and it's illegal to drink at your age. Your hormones are kicking in get used to it because for the next few years they're gonna be there making you feel crazy. But be happy about hormones I learned in science they make healty bones (it scares me too). You can get a boyfriend that's not weird. But make sure you have one "safe person" that you can go to when things get way out of hand. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Some of you people need to be taken outside and beat. I highly suggest not meeting me in a dark Ally. Moving on.
Wanting to break away from restraints set upon you /is/ normal however they are there for a reason. Smoking can and will kill you. And really do you want stained yellow teeth, smelly clothes and hair (becuase it does reek), not be able to taste your food properly and wake up with a hacking cough becuase you are slowly killing your lungs?
As for drinking... well a lot kids die from under age drinking. It impares good judgement and too much will poison you. Not to mention the accidents caused by drunk drivers.
As for being as you so aptly put it.. a slut. Do you really want every guy thinking you are easy? To just be interested in one thing? Really it is no way to go. I was labled a 'slut' and I didn't even /do/ anything. I was a virgin till I was seventeen. Then I gave into highschool pressures and you know what? I regretted it. Save it for that one special man down the line. And if it is too late you can still stop before your reputation is destroyed. Once labeled there is no going back.
Relax and be a teenager. Those raging hormones /will/ eventually calm down. As for the thong... I say go for it. Its a sfae way to feel a little wild that only you need know of. Please keep in mind that I /have/ been there and I /do/ know what I am talking about unlike some of these other .... whats the word I want.... immature twats. Yes twats that will do. Best of luck my love.
-Mew-
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There is nothing wrong with being a good girl. You could loosen up, but you are taking it wrong. Trying doing Drama stuff, there's no prudes in Drama. Don't screw up your life just because of an impulse. You could do something you'll later regret. Use your energy in a positive way. And find yourself a nice b/f, and just to challenge yourself, take it slow.
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It's called being a 13 year old. The difference between the idiots in the movie Thirteen and every other normal person is the fact that they don't do those things they have the urge to do.
Yes, it's normal to feel this way (to an extent) but it isn't really normal to actually do these things. Don't fuck up your life on a whim of urges. Remember that you aren't obligated to give in to things you just feel like you could be doing because later, you are going to regret it.
Regrets suck.
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