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kinda cunfused
okay, i've written before about this kid brendan who i'm still in love with. (really bad) but it doesn't really look like he's interested at all. so i started going out with the kid steve who i've gone out with a million of times before. i don't like him but my best friend lucas said he's really diggin me and i should go out with him kinda to get him off his back. lol.. i know it's mean but i'd do it for him. and as you all know valentine's day is coming up and i don't know if i should break up with him now and get it done with or if i should wait a lil while after valentine's day. or would that look like i was using him. oh ya and steve is planning something really cute for valentine's day along with a couple of my girls boyfriends for all of us. so i don't know if that would be mean to dump them eaither. oh ya and im 16! (please help) xOox elise*
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don't do that though. i mean it may look like you're doing the right thing and boosting his confidence but it's just never right to play someone like that. break up with him now before it gets too serious or valentines day is just that close ahead. he'll eventually get over you. i mean how would you like it if Brendan just kept going out with you over and over again. you'd feel used up and everytime he's like ok lets go out.. you'd get all happy and your hopes up and then it would just lead to a breakup right? so do steve a favor and cut him loose. and just do what you always do.. like brendan lol.
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Well, you kinda are using him and being mean already. Soz but its true. The best thing you can do is just dump him just now. Your not being fair to him or yourself by leading him on. Just get it over with, there's no point in dragging it on for another couple of weeks. Then once you've done that, why don't you just come out right and tell brendan how you feel. Hopefully he'll feel the same. If he doesn't, I know it will hurt, but that way at least you'll know the truth and be able to start to move on instead of staying confused. I really hope everthing turns out okay for you. Good luck
Be happy
Claire xx
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well dont go out with someone if you dont like them!! thats rude and you can really hurt there heart ... thats low.. using someone!! wow ... hope i helped .. Love, Maura Ann
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I believe you should break up with him before V-day. It wouldn't be mean, becuz no one likes to be in a relationship they don't wanna be in. I know it sucks, but if you're not happy, do it. Just let him down gently... hope i helped.:D
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