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I am 13, and I am going back out with my X Boyfriend, I'll call him Alex. Now, In our past Alex and I have went out two times. The first time we went out, everything was perfect. I thought I ment my true love. And he was in love with me, and I was in love with him. Then one night Alex and I went out to a hockey game. Amazing nigh, i had the best time ever. I thought nothing else could go wrong. After we both went home, I got on the computer and he said something mean to my best friend, Leah. And I asked him why he said that, and he started flipping out on me, saying that everything he does is wrong, he never does anything write. And he started cursing at me. Calling me things, then he said why don't you find somebody else thats better than me. And I told him, there is NOBODY that is better than you, I love you Alex. Then he said that again, took me out of his profile and put an away message up. He came back about 10 minutes later, and said he was so sorry he didn't mean anything he said. I was so mad, I didn't know what to do. I wanted to say I was sorry too, but i couldn't, I told him I don't want to take his crap anymore. And his only excuse was, ''I only had one girlfriend before, give me a break.'' And then I was so mad that he broke up with me, I went out with my other X-boyfriend Josh. (that same day). And Josh and I went to a football game the day after everything happened. And I really didn't like Josh, I just wanted to go out with somebody to make me happy, and try to get over Alex. And when I was going out with Josh, I was still loving Alex the whole time. Then at the football game, I couldn't take it anymore, I needed Alex, after seeing him there and everything, I couldn't help it but to remember everything that we had. So at the football game i broke up with Josh and went back out with Alex. We lasted about 2 weeks (at the most) and he broke up with me, because he said that he couldn't stop thinking about me going out with Josh. And then about two months after that happened, he went out with somebody else named Ali. And when they were going out, i was so mad. I couldn't help thinking about what we used to have the first time we went out. And while they were going out Alex and I started talking again, being close friends again. And I started loving him more and more every day. And one day he was so mad, and he wouldn't tell me why. He said ''I only need one thing to make me smile in this world''. And i was thinking about it all night, he wouldn't tell me what that one thing he needed to smile was. And I thought that it was me, the way he said it. Because then he said, ''Why do you want to know, you wont be able to give it to me anyways'' And then I told him that i still love him, and I need him so bad. A couple days after that, he told me that that one thing he needs was me. He said he never stopped liking me. I couldn't beleave it. And now were going back out again. For the third time. I acutally think this time is going to work, and he tells me he loves me soo much, and everything else like that. And I beleave him. And that's what he told me the first time we went out. And I wanna beleave him, but I keep thinking about what he told me the first time. And im scared he's going to get me to love him again more and more, then break up with me again. What do you think I should do? Beleave him or not? XoXo **AmberO**
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wow. lol that was long. BUT anyways. Give it one more try, be honost with everything your feeling.
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Well sometimes it takes a few times to get something to work. I have to admit that it is really hard to believe someone after they hurt you so much. If it seems things are going back down the drain just stay friends. Sometimes thats best even though you feel you need them for something more. ~*AmAnDa*~
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hmm.. that is very complicated. First off.. your hormones are raging, so what you think is love, may be just that reminder that your growing up. two, Alex seems like a pretty good guy. Maybe something happened to him you didn't know about and he just needed something to vent on, and with no one else to do that to, he did it to your friends, and then turned it to you. He probably didn't mean it. 3rd, Ali was probably a fling just like Josh.. but if you guys have held some sort of feeling for a while, maybe your relationship will last. Personally I'm sort of against middle school relationships because they ruin friendships and almost never work out. If anything keep up the friendship with him, it seems like you guys are really close.
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First of all. If it didn't work out the two times before, what makes you think its going to work now? He over-reacts way too much. I understand that he loves you and that you love him. If he gets all pissed off that you asked him why he insulted your friend then you obviously dont want to be around that type of person. I say tell him to back off. He blew it the first and second time. Why should you believe him now?
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Wow, long question! Lol, it's ok. I think you should go out with again. I really think you guys have something. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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sry hun, my advice is that dont believe all the things hes telling you, hes gone out with 2 people and you both seem young and dont know how relationships are really sopossed to work.. so if you guys broke up twice i dont think a third time things are gong to be perfect and everythings going to last forever, if one thing happens it sets a steady pattern, if you haven't noticed, sorry but i think that, x0 Renee
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