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Well you see I have dated this kid many times and the last time we broke up was because we were going to schools different from eachother, but then he asked me back out after he realized we talked and saw eachother alot more then expected... and i think i love him and we tell eachother that we do, but I have a crush on a boy that goes to my school who I think flirts with me. And i had a dream last night that the kid I like picked me up and swung me around in a hug and kissed me on the cheek.. and he chose me out of alot of different girls. i don't know what to do?
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personally i think that you should stay wit your boyfriend and not worry bout that other dude too much. he jus seems like a fling to me and you would be feelin real stupid if you let go of someone that means a lot to you to mess around wit someone who might be messin around wit other people too. jus wait it out and see what happens. dont rush into anything, especially if things are goin good for you and your man. ~aLeXiS
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How long has this guy been flirting with you? If he's been flirting with you for a while and he hasn't asked you out yet, then forget about him and stick with your current boyfriend. But if he has just recently started flirting with you, then maybe you could try flirting back and see if he will ask you out. But if you really love your current boyfriend, then stay with him. You just have to do what YOU want to do. No one else can tell you what your heart wants. Sry I wasn't much help.. Good luck!!
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If I'm perfectly honest, neither guy sounds like an amazing choice!! Firstly, you say you and your boyfriend have broken up many times before - things obviously aren't going right for you; I'd get out of that relationship if you can (but, incidentally, just because you have a crush doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend, and a dream isn't a solid reason to break off a relationship).
You really need to do some soul-searching and find out if you love your boyfriend or not. And I mean really love, not just think you ought to.
This other guy...if you do break up with your boyfriend, it shouldn't be for him. A break up should be for you - get out if you're not happy!! Then, once the breakup is over (if you do break up) and the dust is settled, think about going for this other guy. You definately wouldn't be a flirt - you're a great person for thinking about your boyfriend this far ahead; most people would just do whatever they wanted! Good luck and I really hope things turn out OK for you,
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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heyy,i think that you should go on a date with both of them and see which one you like and i f that doesnt work then go out with the one you like the most and which one you think is more like a boyfriend and i safe arounmd you.
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I would dump your bf. The guy at your school seems to like you..and you would see more of each other. As for the other guy..maybe you can still be friends?
-melissa-
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