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Boyfriend has a problem communicating feelings
My boyf & I have been together 4 2 months ... yet he has a problem communicating his feelings openly and honestly. W e have both had a rough and not so nice upbrining, we have both been put down numerous times by our step-parent's.
Whenever he does it's because he has consumed alcohol and he has a tendensy to use unneccessary 'ugly' descriptions of what I am to him. For example he has called me 1 of the most dis-interested lover's he has ever had ... and then as always the next morning he is very sorry and asks for forgiveness ... it's the same old story over & over and it's getting too much 4 me to handle ...
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I was in a relationship like that not to long ago. After a year in a half i was done with him. He also drank and said not so nice things to me. Then the next day say im really sorry, i love you. Well the way i started to see it was if he really loved me he wouldn't have done it in the first place. And why say sorry for something you are going to continue to do. I know it will be hard for you because you probably love this guy alot, but you need to help your self and let him go. No one deserves to be treated that way. And do you really think he loves you as much as you love him. If he did he would not treat you that way. So, if you have ever herd the saying, if you love them let them go. My advise to you would be to do that. If you don't have respect for your self no one will, so really respect your self, you deserve better. Kick him to the curb. Goodluck.
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He is obviously not doing any good for your life, and since he is screwed up, he isn't going to fix your life. I say dump him, you don't need someone who treats you that way. Since you have had a rough upbringing, you need someone who will love you, and tell you over and over again how great you are. So dump this guy so you will be open to new guys.
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He needs to get help, he is verbaly abusing you. It might be hard but if he doesnt get help and this continues you should break up with him. Good Luck!
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Do you think that the alcohol is a sufficient excuse to hurt you so much? If so, try and help him get over it and support him through it :) If not, then get out of the relationship - please don't waste your life being unhappy!! Life is precious, and you should make as much of it as you can as brilliant as possible!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Ok trust me on this- Ya'll are both too fucked up to be with each other.
Next, people tell the truth or close to it when they're under the influence. If he's saying those mean things, he probably means it and there's your answer to why he doesn't want to open up to you.
Relationships aren't supposed to be like this after TWO MONTHS! Actually they shouldn't be like that at all- GET A CLUE
peace
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