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Always fighting about the same thing


Question Posted Monday January 17 2005, 10:47 am

My boyfriend and I are always fighting about the same old stuff ... we made an agreement in the beginning of our relationship that he would give up smoking and I would give up using drugs! The only time I have ever taken drugs is when he has consented and used with me !!! Yet he has difficulty giving up smoking especially when he has had something to drink ... am I being irrational or is he just being unfair saying that smoking is more difficult to give up than drugs ??????????????

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sweetjewel answered Monday January 17 2005, 2:08 pm:
woh cares, u should want to give up drugs for YOURSELF not your boyfriend, help him out, buy patches, gum... whatever it takes it you want him to quit

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S1lv3rBlad3 answered Monday January 17 2005, 11:56 am:
Quitting tobacco is probably one of the hardest things to quit, along with Heroine, Meth, Cocaine... If you are taking Ecstacy and/or Marijuana it is much easier to quit from those.

Slap some nicotine patches on your boyfriends arms and give him a bag of jolly ranchers.

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coolpool0509 answered Monday January 17 2005, 11:50 am:
ok I think if you are not a big enough reason to give up smoking and he is not a big enough reason to completely give up drugs then you dont belong together.

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worshipthelizardking answered Monday January 17 2005, 11:28 am:
Ok for one thing how old are you? Cause your grammer suggest you to be like 14. And another thing, I'm guessing you mean cigarettes? Quitting nicotine is up there with a difficulty level often compared to quitting Crystal Meth. If the "drugs" you're referring to is something close to coke or speed then ya'll are on the same level. If you're talking about pot then I think you're an idiot for saying it's difficult to give up because weed is only mentally addictive and mind over matter.. get it? Plus it seems like neither of you want to quit and you sound like drama feeding child.
PEACE

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