ok well i was talking to this guy, were friends, not even friends and we were talking about his friend who had sex with his new girlfriend. then hes like shut up, my dads home. so then we stopped talking about it. then a little bit later it sort of came up again and i made a comment about it. then he didnt respond for like 10 mins. then he said: i hate u, u got me grounded, i told u that my dad was in the room. he didnt tell me that he was in the room, he had just said that he was home nad i had no idea that he was reading the conversation. now the guy (paul) is grounded for 2 months. he says hes never gonna forgive me or ever talk to me again. i feel so bad, theres nothing i can do about it.
help! what do i do?
AdInA answered Monday January 10 2005, 5:18 pm: gosh he's a jerk! don't worry about it!! you didn't know, it was an accident! not a big deal, and you shouldn't feel bad. :) *adIna* [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
kristen22 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 10:20 pm: Girl don't even stress it! It was his fault anywayz. You were trying to be a friend and be there for him to listen to his troubles. How were you supposed to know his dad was reading everything? And what was he grounded for anywayz? lol being on the computer? or telling you about his troubles? thats so retarted. He's just bein anal lol Here's you something to use for future refrence, me and my best friend would do this when we were younger. When your on the phone or the computer, and someone is near you and you cant talk about something you were previously talking about say "L E" which means listening ears...your friend will get the drift and drop the subject. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
AsKmE135 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 10:18 pm: Try to explain it to him, and apologize. And if he doesn't forgive you, who cares? He wasn't your friend in the first place. [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:51 pm: This guy is a loser anyway. Screw him. He shouldn't have been having sex with his girlfriend. If he really wanted you to shut up about it, he should have said it. Forgive yourself. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
xoxsweetashley91 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:48 pm: okay well it seems like you met him online, so i would just forget about it. if he is someone you actually see in person, tell him you didnt know and explain that if you knew his father was there, you wouldnt have brought it up. just apologize. Please Rate! Hope I helped! [ xoxsweetashley91's advice column | Ask xoxsweetashley91 A Question ]
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