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Question Posted Saturday November 20 2004, 9:38 pm

do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

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ilovejojo703 answered Monday November 22 2004, 3:48 pm:
depends on the guy...


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Bigmouth247 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 9:35 pm:
Girl the world is not rotating around a guys desision if he is shy go for it and if he is not then go for it. we have to get away from the idea that guys are the only ones that ask girls out! good luck and i hope i helped!

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bulldawgfan141 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 7:50 pm:
NO WAY!! guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out with them. im a guy so i should know. fell free to ask guys out
hope i helped from,Jonathan

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 5:33 pm:
No, the guy doesnt always have to. Its just more common for a guy to. There is nothing wrong with the girl being assertive. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~ren~*~*~

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Tinkerbelle answered Sunday November 21 2004, 4:52 pm:
It really depends on the guy. Some guys like the daring, go for it type of girls, but others feel intimidated by girls that aren't afraid to ask or anything. You just have to know the guy and know what he likes. If he's more shy, though, I would do the asking because if you wait you won't get anywhere. Just remember that guys think just like we do, they wonder if they should be the one doing it all.

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lilangelshan08 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 4:00 pm:
yeah they do, guys like girls that are outgoing and outspoken, that's why sadie hawkins dance's were invented, because it's not just the guy's job to ask the girl out. remember it's 2004 and women can think for themselves!
*~*shan*~*

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xxmissdoreyxx answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:14 pm:
I have asked out some guys and also have been asked. I honsely think that its alright for the girl to make the first move but to me its just a matter of what feels right. if you think that you should ask him out go for it and dont hold anything back

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lyDia_LoU answered Sunday November 21 2004, 11:23 am:
Yeah I think they do. They know it takes a lot of courage and are prolly attracted to it. Lol I read this in a YM magazine, but anyhoo. Yeah, they are.

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jenack310 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:05 am:
It depends on the guy. Some guys will love it! It shows confidence in a girl. But, others might feel as if its his job to do the asking. If its a cocky guy, you'll probably be better off waiting for him to ask you.

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niinax3 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:35 pm:
u can only do it at a sock hop like a sadie hawkins dance wen its the point.. i mean u CAN if u want to any other time but i mean ... umm yeah i think its a guys` job... most guys feel intimidated wen grls ask em out so idk..i wouldnt im just not the type bt if u wanna go ahead

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AdviceMistress answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:32 pm:
normally it's the guy who does it all!!

*BeSs*

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KrayZeBeaUtyFuL answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:02 pm:
Well personally sweety ive never asked a guy to a dance or asked a guy out. i think if the guy really wants you hell ask you and that you shouldnt ask them because in my opinion it makes you look desperate.. its all up to the type of girl you are though!
- Megan *

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buckems answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:55 pm:
Guys like it when girls come on to them! they dont want to do it all!

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Solaris answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:51 pm:
This day and age it doesnt really matter anymore. However its more courdial if the guy asks the girl out. Its traditional and shows he has what it takes to step up. However guys now a days are scared of that type of stuff so really its your own judgement. However to really answer your question for me it doesnt really matter. FOr lots of guys it doesnt matter. Its all opinion of the person.

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americanxidiot answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:48 pm:
no dont give in, dont ask them they need 2 be the man and ask you !!

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frenchy answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:44 pm:
hey! although i'm not a guy, i'll try to answer your question. some guys like it when girls have enough guts to ask out a guy ro ask him to dance and some dont. i recently talked to one of my guy friends about it and he said that its nice when girls do that because some guys are shy and just dont feel comfortable doing it, or they just like girls who take the initiative to do it. i guess it also depends on what kind of guy you are looking for. if you're looking for a gentleman, the let him ask you, but you can show him that you like him. but if you're looking for a guy who doesnt really care about that kind of stuff, then go ahead. hope this helped, peace and love!

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paradiei3abii3x answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:44 pm:
Well, it dependsz but ii think that they like it most of the time ! hope ii helped .

xOxO . Katie

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xokaylanicoleox answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:26 pm:
It has always been known with me that the girl doesn't ask the guy out and the girl only asks the guys to dances if it's one of those dances where the girls have to ask the guys. The girls can make the first moves and all, but I don't know of many girls that would ask guys out. -Kayla

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babiigurl076 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:17 pm:
That's not always the case, some guys like it when girls take the initiative to ask the guy out instead. I've asked a guy out before, it's not THAT hard. Yeah, usaully the guys do it but hey there's a first time for everything! So really, some guys like it, some prefer to ask the girls out. Hope I helped! -Amber

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A-reynolds-C answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:12 pm:
I dont think it really matters... it just depends on how the guy is.. if he is old-fashion or if he really doesnt care!
I hope this helped!!
Please Rate!

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askmeimaguy answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:06 pm:
well ima guy and well its ok sometimes because when guys ask and get rejected they comeback to their friends and get humliated but if a girl asks them they dont have to know about it. And its just weird to have a girl come up to you and ask you to dance its just being a gentlewoman which just isnt ok just you can do it sometimes but not alwaysso i hope i helped being a guy and all.

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superstar10 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:02 pm:
well im not a guy but i bet guys like when grls ask them. and some guys are just shy and wont ask..

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confusedbabii answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:01 pm:
i'm not a guy so i don't know if guys like that or not. but they do seem pretty amused by it. and no guys do not have to do it all or i wouldn't have had a boyfriend over the summer. it can work either way.

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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