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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!
aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon
Try making up an excuse next time he calls. Give him subtle hints that you don't want to talk so much but don't cut him off completely. Talk to him in person, on IM, but try to make up little white lies as to why you can't talk to him. But, you should probably just tell him. The key in a good relationship is communication.
Okay so my friend just told me that my other friend got raped about 2 years ago.. and I am just now finding this out. And oh my god, I didn't believe her at first, but I know she wouldn't lie about something like this. Ah I am in total shock, I like still can't believe it. I just don't want to believe it... oh my god but I really need to tell my mom, she's good friends with my friend's mom and she deserves to know. But how in the world do I tell her? I like can't come right out and say it.. ahh I really just want to forget about all this though... HELP!!
If you really feel like you can tell your mom anything, then tell her directly. But, if you're not sure about telling her, then don't. Wait some time and maybe later, you might feel more comfortable sharing.
i like two people. lets call them billy and bob. i really started to like billy. and one day i got someone to tell him. well my best friend told BOB that i like him. i didnt really but then i started to again. i didnt really hear much from billy but bob was starting to like me now. i talked to bob and he said "well i like you but i really want to get to know you more first and well see what happens from then." all of the sudden one day like 10 people come and tell me billy likes me. so now i want to go out with billy, but i dont want bob to think i dont like him and have him not like me anymore so if me and billy ever broke up bob would think im running back to him. i dont feel like waiting for bob and have billy not like me either. what should i do ?
Be honest with both Billy and Bob. Since you like Billy more, tell Bob that after thinking about it for some time, you much rather be friends with him. Then, tell Billy that you still like him and that you're hoping that something will happen between the two of you.
do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?
It depends on the guy. Some guys will love it! It shows confidence in a girl. But, others might feel as if its his job to do the asking. If its a cocky guy, you'll probably be better off waiting for him to ask you.
i like this guy stevie. a few days ago, i found out from lots of people that he likes me too! i was really happy but he knows i like him too so i dont understand why he wont ask me out. lol i never really asked out a guy before cause i think its more right for him to ask me hes really sweet around me and hints all the time but like i dont want to ask him. should i or wait?
Go for it! Guys like girls with confidence and by asking him out, that shows that you have plenty. He might be shy or maybe just not ready. But, if you know he likes you back, there's a HUGE chance that youll get a "yes" to your question. Make the first move!
I want to know how to handle the following problem. I have a friend and she likes one of my guy friends, but my guy friend told me that he hates her as a girlfriend but likes her as a friend even if she is annoying sometimes. Well, I don't know whether i should tell my friend or just keep it a secret. My friend thinks that my guy friend likes me, but I don't think he does. She thinks another guy likes me also, but I doubt that too. She thinks I'm leading him on because she says I flirt with him, but I don't like him and that I'm sending him the wrong signals. What should I do? Should I tell my friend that my guy friend doesn't like her or should I keep it a secret? And how do I found out if these guys like me or not?
First of all, flirting is natural. There's nothing wrong with it. However, there's a line to be crossed. If you flirt too much, you might be sending the guy wrong signals. Give your friend subtle hints that your guy friend doesn't like her. Suggest that she might find someone else to like. As to finding out whether these guys like you, there's nothing you can really do except asking them straight out, which is sometimes a bad option. Try reading their faces when they talk to you. Sometimes, its easy to tell if a guy likes you. But, dont jump to conclusions.