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little sister trouble
Ok i have a sister who is a 13 months apart and she drives me crazy...i am so nice to her i let her wear my clothes and i do favors for her but she is just a brat to me any ideas on how to like make her not be such a brat? i dont know she like finds out things about me from my EX and she knows everything and like she wants to tell the world and its quiet annoying....uhhh yeah so any ideas...?
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Sibling rivalry is common. She's in her own bubble, yet she still chooses to have power struggles with you. I'm sure you're not completely innocent yourself.
If she is being a brat and you don't want to stoop to such a level, it's time you stop doing favours for ungrateful people. She is being selfish and shows no gratitude, therefore she doesn't deserve to be treated with kindness and generosity. Maybe once she gets older, she'll finally understand what she is missing.
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i have a sister too. shes 6 years younger than me so i know what your going through. sisters are pains but theres not really a way to make them not be. dont be afraid to tell her no. and about what she finds out from your ex.es maybe you should try to keep a really strong friendship with your exes so they dont tell you sister everything. hope i helped <3 ya!
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i have the same porblem with my sister. we are about 11 months apart. dont worry your aloud to say she is a bitch. lol. that is what i consider my sister. Just tell her to stop. i know it prolly wont work but maybe she feels that she doesnt have a strong relationship with you. Yeah granted you share your clothes with her but maybe she wants a relationship with you, her sister where you can both talk to each other when something is bothering you. maybe she is judt doing it for attention. Sit down one day and talk about stuff and straighten things up. let her know that she can trust you and vise versa. maybe if she knows that if she does something she shouldnt have and needs to talk about it, that you will be there. believe me i lack that relationship with my sister. but i think it is part of the problem with us. Well i hope this helps. Good Luck hun. if ya need anyhting else leave one in the inbox.
Barb
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OMG are you serious that the same exact thing with me and my sister and we are alson 13 months apart.Well what i do is not talk to her for a while and when she finds things out get her was off on purpose and then she wont have any idea's about what she is talking about OR you can goto your mom i've done that and it only helped for a week but what i suggest you to do is keep her way off the true and on top of that she is your sister and is only tryin to get to know you better but she isn't doing a very good job at it.
I hope it works out tell me how it works out.
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TeLL heR tO stOp `n MinD her OwN busiNess. MaYbe put it in yOur own wOrdz tO nOt sOund sO harSh. wHy is she taLkinq to YoUr ex?? asK hEr sOme oF tHeSe qUesTiOnz becaUse iT`z yOur riqht to knOw. If it reaLLy bOthersz yOu-dOn`T keeP iT iN..teLL her hOw yOu feel..-Tiffany
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oh my gosh I'm just that close in age with MY sister! everyone would think you'd get along with them but the closer in age the more they are mean! I'm in the same situation right now with my sister since i'm in high school and she's still in middle school. what i do is just ignore what she says and she does get tired of it. You could get dirt on her and take some revenge and it does feel good..at first but later on i'm sure you'll regret it so you might not wanna do it but if you do by all means go for it. there's always the threat: if you don't start being nice i'll stop sharing clothes and doing favors. there's also the i'm gonna have to hurt you or hey there's always ur parents that can deal with that. There's so many options but w/e you do don't hurt her physically or in any way cuz i did that with my sister and it's a good tactic for letting off steam but it doesn't help ur social life whatsoever. ur just grounded for life and THAT'S NOT FUN! i hope you do something good! lemme know how it works out
from, ally
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Siblings! They know you so well, it's scary. I don't think you should try blackmail, because by what I read, she has black-mail on you too.. But I think the best way is to say something like "You're my sister, and I don't know why you're acting so immature. I wouldn't act this bad towards you, so I don't know why you have to be such a brat towards me" Or something like that. But when you do try to talk to her, try to add 'but your my sister' because something like that tends to soften someone up. Good luck with your sister and remember: She's family. Hope I helped! -Ce
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eh that sux, sibling fight and there isn't much you can do about it i guesss don't be as nice to her unless she agrees not to find stuff out about ur ex and tell everyone about it. Then she'll be nice to you and you can be nice to her back. Hope this helped
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If I were you, I'd either one, be a brat right baCk to her and give her a taste of her own medicine, or two, tell her that your really depressed about something {just make something up} and make her feel sorry for you and so she'll stop being a brat for awhile and then eventually itll just turn into a regular basis typa thing..thats whut i did to my sister and now we are alot better
love kristin
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get dirt on her and if she wants to say somethin you can just get her back..
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Shes a girl and your sister and shes annoying? Sounds normal to me. But since you guys are so close in age I would think that you would get along well. I think she tries to get information from people because she feels like you exclude her from your personal life and sisters tell each other secrets and I think she wants to be your best friend.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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Talk to her, tell her you love her but some of the stuff she does really annoys you. And ask her not to say stuff because you dont want anyone to know..She could be doing this just to get attention from you, so try hanging out with her more often so she doesnt act like abrat all the time.
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tlk to ur sister and tell her how u feel becuase she cant read ur mind so if u tell her how u feel everything should just be ok
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