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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do?
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its pretty normal...my friends r like that.. maybe u should hang out with more friends and they can help u or something...but if u need more advice just ask me!! hope i helped...
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I'm sure a lot of girls feel like this, just because having a boyfriend is such a good feeling, but you probably should not rely on something like that to keep your self esteem up high. There is so much more out there then guys, and when you do find the right one you will know it. Until then just keep on having fun hanging out with your girlfriends, or even guys that are close friends, and don't make not having a boyfriend keep you down.
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wow ur in the same sittuation as me .. ive been single for like 7 months haha its pathetic i no.. i have mad low self esteem too nd i alwais wanna b wit someone cuz beein single is boring soo jus like flirt a hell of alot nd dont b shy around guys cuz they like when ur beein urself turst me u will get someone it works.. i flirt like crazii nd all the guys tell me how pretty i am now nd gorgues nd shit .. jus trii it
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So many girls now-a-days are going to comfort for men. But that doesnt fill the hole. Relationships are very time consuming and they fake the feelings of being lonely out of your life. Guys are not the answer to fixing you self esteem thats something you have to do for yourself
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Yes, this is normal for your age, sweetie! Most girls feel like they're not pretty enough or popular if they don't have a boyfriend. In reality, you don't NEED a boyfriend - I have plenty of friends who are really popular and everyone likes them, but they aren't in a romantic relationship.
I think that it's fine for you to feel that you need a guy, but just try to think about other things for now. Your self-esteem could raise if you join a club or something to get you more involved in school and meet some new people!
Good luck! =)
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Yes, it is normal to feel that way. For a while I'd feel that the ONLY way I'd ever be able to be happy is if I was in a relationship. That's how alot of people are, not just girls but guys too. We need that extra support to help us through things. We need that special someone to be there for a shoulder to cry on. We just need SOMEONE who we know is going to be there for us and it's a great comfort. There is really nothing you can do about it. It just means that you are dependent. For some people it is okay to feel that way but you really shouldn't be dependent on a relationship to raise your self esteem. Try telling people how you feel and you might feel better. Hope this helped.
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yeah that is normal... a lot of people be that way... but u shouldnt just rush into a relationship cuz u feel like u need to be in one... if u do so... once u and that person break up... ur self esteem will be lower... wait for the right person to come along... & untill than... be happy with who u are... everyone has their special talents and qualities... concentrate on them... & you'll feel better about urself...
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its normal everybody sometimes feels like you need someone
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yes its normal. everyone goes through it sooner or later but the only thing you can really do is find someone you really like and see what happens, hope i helped.
BabyGurl
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It's normal for your age. Don't worry, you're self-esteem will soon boost, you're growing, and it could be hormones, or anything else, just rember you DO NOT need a relationship to help boost that self esteem, it isn't the best thing in the world, and at your age, it'll only lead to heart break... trust me.
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its perfectly normal i feel the same way, i think everyone wants somebody
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Not everybody needs to be in a relationship. It's perfectly normal. But if you really want a boyfriend try to find someone you like who likes you back.
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Yeah that's toatally normal for a girl your age. I'm exactly like you, I hate not having a boyfriend and my self esteem doesn't really exist it's so low. What you need to do is get out there and meet people. Don't date any guy who comes along, wait til you find the right person.
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Yes, it is definately normal. I was desperately searching for a long term relationship when I was 13. I chased down every and any guy just to get one and say I had one to help me feel good about myself. It will happen, it's going to seem like forever until it does, but your heart will tell you when you're emotionally ready and it will all fall into place, believe me! You must have some friends that have relationships? It doesn't hurt to be single because you seem like the type of chic who once you do get a boyfriend you are not going to let go for anything. So for the time being try to enjoy the present time, hang out with friends, have some guy friends and enjoy the single life...live it up! And since you are on the prowl, it's gonna happen soon. Your destiny is on its way!
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if your self esteem is low at 13 imagine what you will be like at 16 or 17 go and have fun with your mates before you get into a serious relationship but when you do make sure its someone special. :)
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hey hun.. ya its deffinatly normal.. u can deff. relate to me at times.. i get lonely n' stuff n' think that if i have a guy to love me then i'll have really high self esteem thats why girls deffinatly have to be independent.. ya having a guy to hold u n' make u feel special deffinatly helps but i mean ur guy friends should notice how ur feeling n' make u feel better about urself.. Just remember that we can't always rely on guys but just be strong and if thats to tough have friends introduce you to friends and then you'll most likely end up with a good guy for u to have a relationship with.. * good luck.. i hope u feel better *
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i no how u feel...it rilli duz hurt ur self asteem wen ur not in a relationship wit sum1...but u'll get over it and eventually sum1 will be interested in u trust mi. meanwhile concentrate on friends, activities and skool. there's always mor 2 life than bein wit sum1...its just easy 2 4get dat sumtime :)
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Yeah, its normal, you're a teenager, you're ready to start having relationships. Try finding someone you like n get to kno them, n you never kno, maybe you could end up in a relationship :) You're self esteem shouldnt be really low tho, try n bring that up :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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